Okay so I had a big crush on this boy @ school, then after he got a girlfriend, I lost interest. Well I haven't been able to find a new crush, I go to a school where there is like 10 guys and they are not at all attractive or nice. So I don't know if I am just needing someone or a lesbian. I don't have any crushes on girls, or any dreams. I just can't become attracted to anyone that I know that is a male. So is this just because I can't find the right guy. I look at guys and they can be cute but I don't have any passion to meet them, like I use to.
2006-09-12 12:11:05 · 9 answers · asked by Becca C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your a lesbien
2006-09-12 12:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
To be a lesbian, you have to be attracted to women, not just lose interest in guys. Part of it's probably the hurt at not getting this, and maybe you haven't actually lost interest in him as much as you say. It doesn't help that you're only around ten guys. Try joining a club or activity outside of school where you might meet a few more guys with similar interests. Wait until you start getting crushes on women before worrying if you're a lesbian.
2006-09-12 12:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by answersBeta2.1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be lesbian if you have neither dreams or crushes on girls? Just because you don't like the guys around you? In my life I felt attracted by very few guys, so I know this feeling, just take your time. You don't have to have a boyfriend now because other girls have.
2006-09-14 00:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Elly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's nothing more than you haven't gotten over the other guy yet... That day too will come....
Until then... no you're not a lesbian.... but if experimenting will convince you, that is always an option...but I don't recommend it.
2006-09-12 12:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only lesbian if u think ur lesbian no one is born a lesbian u just really need someone and there is no one im sure the right guy will some soon i dont think ur a lesbian
2006-09-12 12:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by what the random 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see that can both ways you could be just looking for that one type of guy or you cant decide what you want if it is a girl or a boy you cant figure it out
2006-09-12 12:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probablly means that they are no attractive guys at your school. Just because you arn't attracted to guys, doesn't mean your a lezbo!
Hope I helped some! :)
~Froggie
2006-09-12 12:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by Froggie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try focusing on yourself. No need to worry about "signifigant" others. They will come around when you least expect it. Dont worry if you are or aren't, just be.
good luck
2006-09-12 12:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by raiderh8tn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't found the right guy.
2006-09-12 12:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋