I Meet This girl about seven when we were in hight school... When I saw her, I just love her ,, But I never spok to her in four years we were in same school , But last year , I starting to chat with her ,and we did spok for frist time, she told me, she did not have boy friend .after few moth,She sended me a e-mail , telling we can't no longer talk or chat , Cuz she is seeing someone , I tried to send her e-mails but she did not e-mail me back , I just feel I do love, I never love anyone like her,, So my question is really love or Obsession???
2006-09-12 12:01:48 · 11 answers · asked by Peter B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm sorry that that happened to you, but honestly I don't know. I think it could be either, or a third choice -attraction- you could have had chemistry and she just found some one she likes more. not that's anything wrong with you but she doesn't feel the same way. i know it sounds kinda mean to say that. so I'm sorry and I know I didn't help much.... I hope God brings some one better to your life.
2006-09-12 12:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by Randomness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in line with the 1st question. at an identical time incompatable. the 1st is certainty and the 2nd phantasm. the 1st in non attachment and the 2nd is comprehensive attachment. the 1st is infinate and limitless and the 2nd is limited and finite. One is actuality and the 2nd separates one from the certainty. 2nd question. No. Love is already valuable. Why attempt to entice close it while the very motive to attain this will separate you on your experience from the source of that Love. Love is many stuff on many ranges and is fullyyt ungraspable in it rather is limitless nature for the suggestions. it rather is the suggestions that tries to cluch and draw close and not the middle. The suggestions can not very own that that's it rather is very own writer, that which it already is. it may purely manufacture a concept-approximately that which it needs to very own and fool itself into beleiving it has actual possessed the element while it has purely controlled to very own a picture of the element that's an phantasm. think of roughly somebody who obsesses approximately money and spends their comprehensive life hording and scheming or maybe cheating with the aid of fact their obsession has led them to have faith that rather everyone seems to be out to take their money. They push people and Love away on an identical time and sometime they awaken to comprehend they're death and all they have spent their lives amassing will turn to airborne dirt and dust. they have traded life itself that's actual for a tiny factor of life which isn't actual. i think of the extra important question is why the ought to obsess? persist with that thread to it rather is source. All issues that look for to chop up us from certainty are concern based. What experience or circumstances have brought about this concern (ie abandonment or concern of abandonment) The obsession itself is a reaction or defence mechanism shaped around the source. you will ought to locate the source with a view to launch the ought to obsess. Obsession can bring about addictions between different issues (transference) with the aid of fact they're an identical in nature yet variety purely in style. in case you do not get a weed with the help of the inspiration it rather is going to proceed to return back more suitable and evolve into distinction varieties.
2016-11-07 04:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well kiddo,, u cant love someone that doesnt love you back, after awhile you'll get a complex lol so yes its an obsession! get over her an move on,, if she doesnt want you than its you thats holding on to feelings that dont exist on her part , only on yours! sry find someone that will make you happy not just you tryin to make someone else happy,, love needs to be on both sides, good luck!
2006-09-12 12:10:58 · answer #3 · answered by BonnieJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you have to ask it's probably obsession. But, the main thing here is that she doesn't want to continue your friendship. So leave her alone and find someone else. Anything else would be stalking.
2006-09-12 12:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obession
2006-09-12 12:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're experiencing puppy love that is verging on obsession.
You will want many people thru out your life, so move on to the next one!
CT
2006-09-12 12:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is like an obsession. maybe youre obsessed with love? haha. dont worry about it, just dont cross any lines you know you shouldnt. ie: stop emailig her. good luck.
2006-09-12 12:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by sugar4sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are obsessed with the forbidden fruit get over her you had your chance and never spoke to her
2006-09-12 12:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obsession...get over it, you are going after one who does not feel the same...
2006-09-12 12:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obsession
2006-09-12 12:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋