my guys sister has spent the last few years making it quite uneasy for me to have a realtionship with him whether she was diong it silently or out right, she would make sure she made me uncomfortable anway that she could.
But whenever she wants to she needs to make it habbit to tell me how rude i am and how much of a real woman that im not, but not today.
I call the house and ask for my man and she tells him to tell his girl how to speak and she almost knocked me out cause i brushed past her.
i told him to give her the phone and i let her know how ghetto she was and i dont like her attitude and she will have to deal with the way i speak one way or the other. and i told her she dosent have to deal with me.
BUT I THINK I MIGHT HAVE DONE WRONG BY GIVING HER SOMETHING TO GO OFF OF, BUT I CANT HAVE HER KEEP ABUSING ME!
2006-09-12 11:58:35 · 17 answers · asked by gotchafool05 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Good one. No-one should take abuse from anyone. Why hasn't your man told her to back off? Next time she does something call her on it right on the spot.I hate it when people are rude and then try to turn it around on the person they are rude with. Take her down.
2006-09-12 12:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by preshus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deffinately did the right thing, maybe not in getting angry so much, but is sounds as though she's a little jealous or overprotective of her brother. You should maybe ask her what it is she doesn't like about you rather than getting angry, perhaps she'll find out she really doesn't have that good of an answer, or you'll find out what her real problem is. Either way, it couldn't hurt. I usually find when i ask people why they don't like me (in an actual calm conversation) they really don't have a good answer.
2006-09-12 12:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by I <3 You 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you stood up for yourself. But, you need to tell your man that if he doesn't defend you as well he's gonna be single. If he really cares about you he will make sure she leaves you alone. That's his sister, so she'll be there no matter what. But, you shouldn't have to deal with that.
2006-09-12 12:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long is this going to go on? u better talk to ur b f. and if he doesnt listern u have to do something drastic.
if she has a b f . threaten her that u will break them up if she doesnt stop.
she has a problem. find out what her problem is.
there is nothing else u can do.
she seems like she will break u guys up one day if u dont act like a b itch with her
2006-09-12 12:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you did the right thing of cousrse you told that ***** off. good. tell your man and she will probably back of even more.or just at all. i hate additudes. especilly people who think that they are ghetto can live with out a tuff discusting attitude ugghhh. it gets on my nerves espacilly the girls. =/
go0d luck :)
2006-09-12 12:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by michelle =] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could have tried really talking to her... but if she's just PMS in human form, there's no reasoning with her. it may have been better to just ignore her... although that's difficult too. as long as you told her in a calm manner, i don't think you did anything wrong. but if you did do it in anger, that might have given her something to go off of.
2006-09-12 12:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by jenn w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i dont see anything wrong wth that. but it could come backl and bite u in the butt, maybe, if possible try to talk to her calmly and ask her if u guys could work something out to were she wont abuse u and were u dont do anything to her. thats all i can think of. hope it helps
2006-09-12 12:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by megan r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have done the same thing i would have been like ***** you best watch your mouth! but i don't put up with sh!t lol! so i think it is a good thing you stood up 4 ur self! and do it again if she is actting up again put her in her place!
good luck and god bless!
2006-09-12 12:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by bballgurlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"LOL" Your man? I thought we ended owning people over 125 years ago.
2006-09-12 12:00:53 · answer #9 · answered by Eldude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you did the right thing.
why dont you just tell your guy why she acts like that??
2006-09-12 12:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by C M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋