I am not trying to be mean...but there is this girl who follows me around, she has a speech problem, she eats with her mouth open and makes disgusting noises, she blanks out a lot, thinks she is so funny, thinks a lot of boys like her, and she thinks she is my best friend. She doesnt have any friends, so my mom makes me be nice to her. I even have to go to her house because of my mom! Shes a total dork, but I dont think that anyone has ever told her that. Also, she tries to sing and dance but she cant, and once, she fell and knocked over the whole grade when we were lining up from lunch. I know that friendships sometimes drift apart...any ideas to speed up that process??
2006-09-12 11:58:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She cries if anyone says anything the least bit mean to her! And she calls 10 times even if I tell her that I'm busy! And if I block her on IM, she calls me crying!
2006-09-12 12:10:53 · update #1
There was a girl just like that in my class last year! I really didn't like her. I just told her straight up front that I didn't really like her. You need to find some people who don't like others being hurt or left out to be her friend. Or find someone who dosn't mind her to hang out with her.
2006-09-12 12:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by Drama Queen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a real tough one... she likes you and says and does stupid stuff.... the only way to handle this one is to sit her down without anyone around and listening and say "I want to be honest but I don't want to hurt your feelings." Say it as nice as possible. Say" you want me to be your friend right?, but you do these things that make me feel embarassed.... and then tell her some of the things that bother you and be real about it but not disrespectful. You have to remember she looks up to you. Tell her you need to know she will not make you feel embarassed but you must be honest about what bothers you or its all for nothing and you go back into hiding.
Try this route first and then if all else fails you will have to dodge her as best you can without being mean.
2006-09-12 19:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by smilingmick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The poor girl is going to be heart broken. Is there anyone you know that would have something more in common with her? Like some one in her same social class that she would have more in common with? When I was in school, I was always nice to the less fortunate kids. But they weren't my friends even though i always stuck up for them. You being her friend is a noble thing to do, but you should do it because you want to not because your mom makes you. When this girl gets older, she will appreciate what you've done for her.
2006-09-12 19:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by itsasecret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear a lot of negative comments about her personality here.Have you ever tried to find good things about her.Your quote"She doesn't have any friends".Try talking to her and explain what upsets you.What if the shoe were on the other foot?How would you feel if you had no friends?I'm not trying to be critical of you.Just want you to think.
2006-09-12 19:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by hungerforknowledge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom that you REALLY don't like being around her, if she says, "Be nice" Say that you are being nice and that's why you don't tell her that she's a dork.
If you want to be mean about it, just say, "Your habbits are crude and disturbing, I don't really want to be your friend." Then she might change her mind.
2006-09-12 19:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by Penny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does have a problem, so a lot of kids prob.don't like her. Try being nice to her, but just keep your distance. Maybe it will ware off.
Also you could try getting her to like someone elce. That could work!
Hope I helped some! :)
~Froggie
2006-09-12 19:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by Froggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewww, well don't be mean to her.Datz not nice.Tell her wat u think, but still show her respect.U don't have to b friends with every1 that wants to be friends with you.Just remember to respect her as a person and possibly get her some help
2006-09-12 19:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by Just Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell her that you want her to be a bit normal. or just don't hang out with her as much and sit with different people at lunch
2006-09-12 19:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
woe is you.........
2006-09-12 19:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by SwordDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋