2006-09-12 11:27:55 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
What in the world were you doing having sex?????
Go tell your Mom NOW.
2006-09-12 11:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hunny im going to talk to you like u are an adult cuz right now u need to be thinking like one. Im not going to call you names like everyone else did cuz thats not going to help the situation, First off how do you know for sure your pregnant, and second how far along are you? After you can tell me all of this i can help you more, the most important thing you need to be thinking about now is your babys healt, so i would find someone u trust to either take u to planned parenthood or if you dont want to do that yet get to a store like Meijer or Walmart and buy some over the counter prenatal vitamins. Seriously tho u need to be thinking about what kind of route you want to go with this, getting an abortion is not the answer to this problem, owning up to what you did would be more appropriate. Is the father at all in your life and can he help? Please if you would like to PM me you can the SN is the same as the name im on here. I really wish you luck if we dont talk.
2006-09-12 14:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by princess_2887 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents if you haven't yet... and if you're afraid to tell them, then tell your guidance counselor or a trusted teacher. If you don't know your new teachers well enough yet, go to one of the teachers from last year. Tell your pediatrician. Tell your school nurse. Tell SOMEONE who can help you to tell your parents and make the right choices for yourself.
You have to get medical attention to make sure that you and the baby are healthy and that you will be able to deliver a baby. There is no way to advise you without knowing your physical health. There are a lot of options these days and not all of them include abortion. There are places where you can go to anonymously leave your baby and no one will be upset but the baby will be put up for adoption and cared for with love.
Please do not try to do anything to harm yourself or the baby. And... it IS a baby. I realize that in some ways... so are you... but this is an adult responsibility now and you have to be mature about what's best for you and this baby.
You cannot make these decisions without your family's help... but if you come from a home where you would be afraid to ask them for their help then just go to another grown-up that you trust who is in a respected position of authority, even if it's in a hospital emergency room or the school clinic.
Good luck, honey....
2006-09-12 11:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by thegirlwholovedbrains 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u serious????!!!!
If u r, then go talk to ur parents, even if ur scared, they will be the only ones who can help u make the right decision right now. Whatever u do, please don't have an abortion, don't kill an innocent little baby who didn't ask to be created. Have ur baby & if ur parents don't want to take care of their grandchild, then give the baby up for adoption, there are a lot of loving couples who can't have babies of their own, trust me, they will love & cherish that baby!!!
Hopefully this will teach u a lesson to be more careful & use protection or practice abstinence, remember, ur still a a baby urself, good luck!!!
2006-09-12 11:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by Lil'MissSnshne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, sweetheart! Find a good crisis center where you can get some good advice/counseling and find information on adoption. One of the most important things you can do is think about the life you want for this beautiful baby you will have! Adoption is a great way to bless a couple who can't have children and give your baby the life he/she deserves. If you want to, you can even have the option of an open adoption and still be able to see your baby & be involved in his/her life. Bottom line: your baby deserves a life in a healthy home (& at 12 years old, you still have a lot of growing to do yourself). Give your baby the life he/she deserves. You aren't the only person who has gone through this. Hang in there, it WILL get better!
2006-09-12 11:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by Pigskin Princess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will advise that you search for a strong and solid support group. Find out as much as you can about yourself and what it is you would like to do from now on. Pray. Believe in yourself and the creator. Talk to different people who care about you, most importantly feel "righteous" about what you are going through- even though you (probably) didn't plan on things happening this way, they are happening like this for a purpose.
Remember that you are one (tiny) piece of the universe and no matter what 'problems' arise life will go on just the same. Never forget to look at yourself from a higher perspective, see what you are doing , how you are being and keep yourself focused. Also, keep studying- keep learning.
You are going to be a great mom- believe it- just be your best.
I recommend you read "The four agreements" by Don Miguel Ruiz. That book helped me to see thing better.
Much love going your way little sis.
2006-09-12 11:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Tanyah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!!!!!!!!! what kind of 12 year old are you! you should not be having sex at this age anyway, but at least be smart about it, USE PROTECTION what do you think that if you had sex it would make you feel grown up? well honey that wasnt very grown up like not to use protection. This is your fault, not the babys, so why take its life? because its inside of you? because its your fault your pregnat and your not even grown up enough to take the blame so you put it off on an unborn child? Your sick, have you ever hered you sleep in the bed you make? well in your case it looks like you had some one in there with you! maby the daddy will make a reasponsable choice, how old is he 45!?!? Well ethier way, abortion or birth your parents are going to find out so it looks like your screwed! litterly!
ps, good luck with your choice, and if you decide to have it, good luck with the birth and i hope its healthy and beautiful.
2006-09-12 11:40:53 · answer #7 · answered by dixie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are lots of Crisis Pregnancy Centers that will help you. Look in the yellow pages of your local phone book. Oh by the way, abortion is an option that you would regret the rest of your life!!
2006-09-12 11:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't support abortions. If you do have family support or the support from a church, you should discuss this with them for their advice. Also, does your boyfriend support you? Have you considered placing the child up for adoption? Many loving families are willing to adopt the child if that's the route you choose. Ultimately, the final decision is up to you and I hope you'll make the best decision for your situation.
All the best.
2006-09-12 11:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by Simplyadorable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off it is bad you are pregnant. especially if you are only 12. Talk to your parents about that. They will help you decide what is best. And talk to God he will help the most
2006-09-12 11:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by Kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get an abortion. You had sex, and this is YOUR fault. You wanted to have sex, and the results are a baby. If you kill of any baby at any time, you are insane, woman!
Maybe you don't want to be a mother, but remember...this is your own fault! You asked for this, and now you're paying the consequences.
2006-09-12 11:29:51 · answer #11 · answered by : ) 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋