Okay, so im with my bf that i've been with for a year and 2 months and I really love him and everything. But the problem is...he lives far, so yeah basically long distance . But I have a feeling that we should go on a break and everything till Im old enough and him too to be back together...but I cant find away to tell him that we are going to be back together in the future without really hurting him I dont want to but its the best thing for me and him right now... I need help badly on how to tell him we on a break but also convince him we will be back together in the future...it may seem an easy answer but know he is way to sensitive and i dont want to hurt him so badly if i tell him we need a break. Help!
2006-09-12 11:24:06 · 3 answers · asked by Angelia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why would a break be better for you and him? So it's long distance, you don't get to see each other as often as you'd like, but how would a break solve that? I don't think it would. If you really love him, I don't see what your problem is. The situation may be hard to deal with, but it surely won't last forever. How old are both of you? How much longer do you have to wait to be together full-time? Well, regardless of how long it'll take, I think you should be patient. Your desire to go on a break from him is at the very least suspicious. Do you want to "see" other people? Is that it? If that's it then the best is to just call it quits, because you can't be in love with a person and want to be with other people instead of that person. Is it lack of sex due to you not being together often enough? If so, there's always masturbation! You should really think things through before you decide anything. Get your priorities straight.
2006-09-12 11:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ricardo P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think since it is long term neways he is probaly already seeing someone else im not trying to be an a$$hole its just that might be the case but if not just do it niceley you never know maybe u guys r meant to be and it might be the best thing i mean if i were to be dumped i would rather be told sweetly and not like were done ****** you guys could be made for eachother u know what they say let something go and if it loves you it will always find its way back home
2006-09-12 19:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by Nate C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants to start seeing other people. at least that would plant the seed.
2006-09-12 18:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by aaron 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋