my friend is only 13 and (so am i)sheis not exactly prepy....she just took up smoking and last year she talked about suicid but my friends and i talked her out of it she is now carying around a razor(not a phone)and says she cuts herself with it i dont want to abandon her and i dont want so do somting drastic but i have no idea what i can do before she gets really hurt...
2006-09-12 10:47:36 · 7 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey i'm 13 too
tell an adult or some1 who can help,as u said quick before she hurts her self
2006-09-12 11:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to her and let her know you are scared, if she is cutting herself there is a reason, and it may be as simple as she needs some attention (not in a bad way, but seriously we all need attention sometimes!). Try to figure out why she is doing and talk to the school counselor about it. If she really is cutting herself then she needs to get help and if she's telling you about it then she is reaching out to you.
Try helping her if you can but if it gets to a point where it's too draining for you to help then you need to let her go and tell her why you are distancing yourself from her.
2006-09-12 17:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by Beccawho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should figure out whats her problem? I think there would not b any reason if there would have been, you would have knew that. And if there's no problem then let her die, you can't do anything and it would not b your fault if she dies.
There r some self-centered people who don't even think about their families and friends. Please don't mind but its true that she's self-centered.
She needs a mental treatement and if you could do, you should talk to her family.
It's nice that you're trying to save her life but it's not to feel guilty or upset someone so pathetic.
2006-09-12 18:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by Willie Black 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably doing it for attention, the razor part. The best you can do is be there for her, I used to have that problem, and it would have been solved alot easier with a friend's help.
2006-09-12 17:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by I'm not a babii gurl, thanks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs professional help now! Once you hear her talking about suicide and self injury, you need to take her in.It may not be easy, but your friend is more important than your discomfort.Remember, you aren't hurting her, you are helping her.
Good luck!
2006-09-12 18:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by Just Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if your friend needs professional help as soon as possible.
2006-09-12 17:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL AN ADULT! she needs help. if u wanna get her through this safely, then that just wut u gotta do.
2006-09-12 18:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋