There is this girl in my class that i have a crush on........ we are friends and i am afraid that telling her i like her will ruin our friendship what do i do!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-12 10:41:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok i made up my mind im gonna tell her
should i do it on msn or in person?
2006-09-12 10:49:27 · update #1
dude, in person. and don't tell her that you like her. ask her to go see a movie. see how she would respond. once you get a date, come back for more coaching.
2006-09-12 10:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The decision is yours. Have you figured out what posting this question seems to yell: Are you saying you would like different relationship with your friend. That is what you will be telling her, if you tell her you have crush on her. This action will in short term change relationship for better or worst. How will you react if she does not have same feelings will determine if friendship last, and you do not come on too strong. You'll have to decide what your friendship is built upon, and how she will react if feelings at this time cannot be returned, but If they are returned, than friendship will move to different levels. It's unlikely you are not currently sending signals, so have you noticed what signals are being sent back. What manner best fits current relationship.
2006-09-12 18:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mister2-15-2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may or may not... she may have a crush on you also and you just dont know it....
Ask some of her friends and see how she feels about you, and go from there!!!!
Good Luck
You could always hint around on MSN, and see what her reaction is... But I would tell her in person if she has a good reaction from the MSN contact!!!!
Once again, Good Luck
2006-09-12 17:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to you friend and tell her you like her.Make sure you bring up the point that you wanted her to know but you don't want to risk the friendship.That way you two can figure out what to do.You never know,that relationship could turn out really well.If it doesn't, you two can work on being friends.
Good luck!
2006-09-12 17:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by Just Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you have to tell her, then do so. Wait a while. If you just can't stand it and have to tell her caus it's bothering your conscious, it's time to tell her. Just make sure it's what you wanna do. Maybe ask her first if a friend told her he liked her, but then they broke up, would she be cool wit being friends again.
2006-09-12 17:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the friends i have if they got a crush on ya they gonna tell ya and it never affects the friendship
2006-09-12 17:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make small hints that you like her. Ones that are small but yet that she will respond to,............... something like, say you write her a note and give it to her saying something like..........." Hey, I was just bored and thought I would send a note. Got to thinking and just wanted to say......... I really like our friendship thing we got going. Wanna hang out this weekend if we're not busy? Let me know and we'll figure out something to do. Maybe we can study or something. C-ya.................." If she responds in a good way and says "yeah sure" then she is feeling or at least starting to feel what you are, and is welcoming the extra time to spend together.............. then that weekend is your door opening to make a move.......... sink or swim.............. good luck. Blessed be
2006-09-12 17:47:19 · answer #7 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats, you've taken a huge step to assert yourself as a man more than a guy. Excellent!
Now gather up your new-found courage and go for it in person. Hooking-up (or breaking-up for that matter) are occasions that one would always be there in person for.
2006-09-12 18:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by cleo715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her whts it gonna hurt.... if the friendship falls apart which i dont think it will, then it wasnt ment to be! good luck
2006-09-12 17:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by httgrl231j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your Gut! and things will work out in the end
2006-09-12 17:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by N S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋