if you know that someone doesn't mean you any good AND you also don't care for them....then why do you let it bother you?
how do you make it stop bothering you?
2006-09-12 10:24:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Oh, that is a tough one... It's mind over matter. Learn to count your blessings and be thankful for the people who do mean you good. Because the pain isn't worth it. It inly brings negative energy to you and your friends. Let that other person choose their path and you choose yours.
2006-09-12 10:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We as humans have a hard time being rejected. Acceptance is important to us. We are social creatures by nature, so we thrive on positive social encounters.
There are some of us, however, that thrive on confrontation with others, like sociopaths, for example. Not that everyone who dislikes humanity is a psychopath...but that's besides the point.
I know from personal experience that confrontation and feeling angry do not make me indifferent about someone who I do not like. Hate, or disliking someone is a strong emotion...if you felt nothing about that particular person, it would be indifference.
As for not letting it bother you, I would consider the source. Does the person have a reason for disliking you? Or is he just a bad person with negativity around him all the time.
To remedy all the bad feelings that you have, I would do good things and incorporate positive things into your life. Making good from bad is always a nice place to start,and it may take your mind off of things. Good luck!
2006-09-12 17:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Elkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because despite it all you're a caring person and you hate the thought that someone doesn't like you or is intentionally doing something to piss you off....
Im the same....just gotta think that maybe they do it BECAUSE it bothers you so much?
I just put it to the back of my mind and get on with the important things in life..!
2006-09-12 17:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it bothers u bcause u really do care. and u can make it stop bother u when u stop caring or beat the crap out of the person so they don't say it again.
2006-09-12 17:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by Shin San 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, I don't think I would let it bother me unless the last part is not true. If it bugs a person so much, he/she needs to think deeply about why that is.
2006-09-12 17:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by ndtaya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't. If I don't care. I DON"T CARE! It's a great skill to learn.
2006-09-12 17:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by Lady G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them
2006-09-12 17:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋