when it comes to self control. i seem not to be able to exercise it within myself. to others i seem to be in total control. in fact people look towards me to lean on and while surrounded by people at work, the gym, restaurants, etc.., i enjoy the attention. in fact in that kind of environment i feel i shine. but the control i am talking about here is from the simple things like [eating] to the not so simple things like [feelings]. i go through an inner struggle everyday while alone with my thoughts about when and how to use restraint. i'll convince myself into anything bad, meaning bad habits, and behavior. is it because i know there is no-one around to judge me or what?
2006-09-12 10:00:34 · 4 answers · asked by non-curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Self control is not something you can be taught, it is something you must learn, you must be ready to learn before anything will happen, and there is no reason to change if you are happy, however if you are unhappy, seeking the help of a professional life coach or a well intentioned Friend with great listening skills can go along way
2006-09-12 10:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by HappyHolloween! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not coz of that. Its coz you have let your mind go as wild as it can. Calm down your mind and focuss it. Yoga helps a lot on that.
When you get confused about doing or not doing a nything consider three things.
i)Will it hurt others in long or short run?
ii)Will it hurt yourself in any way?
iii)Is it going to do any good to you?
2006-09-12 17:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I know exactly what you are talking about. email me if you want to talk thumpertime2000@yahoo.com
2006-09-12 17:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by thumper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CLOSE YOUR LEGS.. THATS HOW.
GO BACK.. READ YOUR OTHER QUESTIONS.. AND PONDER TO YOURSELF WHAT KIND OF PERSON YOU ARE!!
2006-09-13 16:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by Serious Mandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋