I'm young, and don't feel that I want to be tied down just yet, however, I do not want to lose my boyfriend.
And of course, I would accept the same thing for him.
So, tell him, or do it behind his back. My decision will depend on the answers I get, I need to decide somehow and think this is the only way.
2006-09-12 09:55:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
how about you sleep with him and other people
at the same time!
2006-09-12 09:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
With a boyfriend you as saying that you have some kind of commitment and at the same time you are saying that you don't want to be tied down. It seems like a classic situation of "I think we should be just friends" . At least save his trust in women and you tell him rather than him find out. Hopefully he won't be heart broken over it.
2006-09-12 17:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by Scooba22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a right to know, so tell him. If you go out and do it behind his back and he finds out, or worse, let's say you catch something (STD) and pass it to him....that's really unfair. It may be a turn on to him. He may be OK with it.
In all fairness though, if you don't want to be "tied down", why are you in a relationship? Why don't you honestly tell him that you aren't ready for a relationship and would prefer taking some time off to experience dating?
Be honest and good luck.
2006-09-12 17:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by makeitclap23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up, make a decision and stop being a baby. If you want to be with him then give up everyone else, sounds like you want to play the field and he'd better not. Break up with him and play all you want, no guilt that way.
2006-09-12 16:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what kind of person he is, he might be down for another girl but probally not other guys. Ask if he would be interested in a 3rd party, most are as long as they can participate
2006-09-12 17:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest answer: if you would like to sleep with people (male or female),really indeed,you do not need to have a boy friend.Good luck.
2006-09-12 17:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him and let him make the decision. If you lie to him and do it behind his back, you will end up losing him in the end. Be honest with him and yourself!
2006-09-12 16:58:57 · answer #7 · answered by lil_rowdy1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just the fact you are considering going ahead with this, without telling him, tells me you mightn't love him as much as you seem to think.
Put yourself in HIS shoes.....if he wanted to sleep with other people, shouldn't he consult with you?
2006-09-12 17:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since he is your boyfriend, you are gonna have to tell him. Just realize that you may lose him over this, but at least you where honest.
2006-09-12 17:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to be up front about it with him. I would rather be told then find out about it later.
2006-09-12 17:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by Sen. John Blutarsky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it isn't cheating if you tell him about it, and if he doesn't like it then he can move on. then again he might want to watch you, or join in for a little group action.
2006-09-12 20:39:46 · answer #11 · answered by redhawktotem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋