before moving on and trying something new? I've been at this job almost 3 years and I feel like I've hit "burnout" and I no longer care about what I'm doing (not sure if I ever did)... I'm having a huge problem staying motivated.
Also, do you believe in having multiple careers in a lifetime? Or finding 1 thing and building on it / being promoted to "the top"?
2006-09-12 09:03:30 · 11 answers · asked by melon_rose 2 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
Well, I had several before I found the one that I really liked. First job 3 years, 2nd job 5 years, 3rd job 26 years. Now I am my own boss and my job is to keep the boss happy, as that advertisement goes.
PS never did reach the top and quite frankly never wanted to after the first couple of years. Office politics was never my forte.
2006-09-12 09:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am in my late 20's as well, and I have been at my job for 3 years-but, in the same profession for almost 7. I am starting to think the way you do about things. It all sucks real bad. Really.
So, I stay at where I am at but I keep looking. Looking for something more interesting.
You see, I work with kids. I am not a teacher, but, I do have some authority over them. And, being that I do not want to be a mother myself, being around all different sorts of children (mentally, emotionally or physically impaired), you get tired of it. I like kids, don't get me wrong. If I didn't I would never be around them at all! But, I want something different. I want something better. Right now, I am looking for that. It may take time, but, right now, it is better then not trying at all.
And, as for having multiple careers? That depends. If you always love doing something and you just happened to luck up upon it and make a career out of it, that is great. You are considered one of the lucky ones. But, if you never really know what you wanted to do with your life because you never really had any opportunities, then finding something that may be your niche will take longer. At least you will never be bored knowing different tricks of the trade.
Good luck.
2006-09-12 16:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you have a good head on your shoulders. You know the importance to being consistent. I am 39 and since my early 20s I have had a number of jobs. The one job that I did well was in Sales. The reason I did well was because I was older and more focused.I got tired of going from job to job. In sales I learned a lot about the importance of developing consistency. I did a lot of self improvement. I think it all starts with finding some thing that you really like or love to do. Then master that career and all ways find ways to cultivate your motivation,(you have to work at it all times).
I once read in book written by "Brian Tracy". He states ,Every one that starts a new job , they look around to those who are top performers and ask them selves: I wonder how can i be at the top?
Brian,used this metaphor: Life is like a buffet. When your in the back of the line you see everyone helping them self to the buffet.In order to get ahead you have to stay in line. The moment you jump the (Que) line you go to the back of the line and start over. The best think to so is stay in line and you will eventually get to the head of the line.
I have always remember that. Every where you go is the same.The grass isn't always greener on the other side. People create the negative aspects to any job in there heads. Avoid the negative,the faster you can get over any obstacle the faster you can move on about your business.But it all works if you find what you love to do.
I recommend to look in to self improvment like:
Tony Robbins:http://www.anthonyrobbins.com/Home/Intro.aspx
Brian Tracy:http://www.briantracy.com/
As you start now you have a great fututre ahead of you!
2006-09-12 16:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by Carl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good afternoon. I am HR Recruiter, and to answer your question, it is time for a job change and three years is excellent, but you need to make sure you are going to make more money. Sometime when you are at company too long, your salary doesn't go up, only maybe by receiving the annual raise.
Also, you are young enough to decide where you want to go with your career. I think you need to find your nic, and possible take some personality test from the local community college, and see what your interest are. Good luck.
2006-09-12 17:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by Biscuit_Ollie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The gold standard for people in my profession, recruiting, is the long-timer. Longevity is so key. Most resumes will show a series of episodes and no eipc. This means that short stints are hard to invest in. Employers want to see loyalty to a company, growth within a company, time to marinate in a specific environment. Resumes that bop around from 1-2 year stints over the length of the experience are red flags. But, it is unusual to find real longevity. If you can show a good track record, growth within a company and a world-class handle of your niche, feel safe and confident to put yourself out there. Three years make you seem like an old-timer in my world...lol
Good Luck!
JobDr
www.jobdr.blogspot.com
2006-09-12 16:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by careerserver 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question. I had the same dilemma at my old job that I was at for almost 5 yrs. I ended up leaving the company, and I'm still adjusting to my new job. Its a hard thing to do, and I'm still wondering if I made the right decision. Weigh out all your options and make a decision.
2006-09-12 16:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by Stephen R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are feeling burnout, you are not doing anyone any good. move on. if you don't care, then it will reflect in your work. it's better to leave now while you can still get a good reference.
sometimes it takes trying multiple things in order to find something that you are truly passionate about. life's too short to climb a ladder to the top while feeling miserable about it.
2006-09-12 16:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by irish_3078 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your right about three years .. You need to move on and seek more knowledge -- The more you learn and the more you know the more valuable you become -you will be considered an asset .
2006-09-12 16:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by cinurmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess whenever they are ready to leave and have other opportunities at the door. I'm in the same boat as you, I wanna move on tooâ¥
2006-09-12 16:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by ♥USMCwife♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully one career
but sometimes 2-3 different ones are becoming the norm
2006-09-12 16:06:30 · answer #10 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋