MEN ONLY! What kind of things do you find attractive in a female?

Question

I am on researching some stuff about attraction and would like to know some person-to-person details on attractions between men and women. Men, please describe your ideal woman and also what you look like (ie black long hair, 160 pounds, chinese) something like that. Thank you boys!

Answer 1

1. A nice smile
2. A woman who dresses like she cares--she can be wearing a dress or jeans, but it has to look like she cares about how she looks
3. A nice butt
4. A 'b' or 'c' cup
5. A woman who looks healthy--I like curves, but I want to be able to lift you off the ground if I need to
6. A good laugh
7. A sexy, confident voice
8. A woman who's attracted to me
9. A woman who has outside interests
10. I like belly-buttons
11. I like belly-button rings and small stud nose rings on a woman
12. I like nice hands
13. I like a woman who's tanned

Answer 2

Ah yes.... what are the secrets to attraction between mena nd women. Yeah, I remember doing a paper on this in college.

Well, since you asked an honest question, I'll give you an honest answer.

As for looks, I've found beauty in many different types of women, but its actually a mathematical science.

Its all about symmetry.

Facially speaking, I look at symmetry, clean skin, preferably not pale, but not overly tan or processed. As far as their make-up, I prefer to see a woman with a minimal amount on. To the point that her natural beauty is accented.

Hair must be long, at the very least past the shoulders. The style doesn't matter. Just as long as it is not unkempt. Hair color really means nothing either, but if you put a gun to my head, I'd have to brunettes.

As for their body, again back to math. Their height must be proportionate to their weight. But long story short, if your dress size is in the double digits, you are too heavy.

As for a race, I prefer caucasian women, but I would go more for personality over that. Also the whole weight thing, as well as how well they keep themselves up, in general terms is what I TRULY find attractive.

Answer 3

1. Quietly self-assured, confident enough to contribute and interact with others without pretense or shame.
2. Realistic but not cynical.
3. Idealistic but not senseless.
4. Lover of truth and beauty.
5. Independent but engaging.
6. Loves and desires me (as a person).
7. Consistent, but still capable of surprising me -- some element of mystery and depth that I can't quite anticipate.
8. Empathizes with others / kind.
9. Smart.
10. Sense of humor / imaginative.

To fall back on the common denominators :), I suppose I should say something about appearance.

I see beauty as holistic (i.e., I take each woman on her own terms -- what matters is how it all fits together, including personality).

So I find different women physically attractive, whether small and thin, or tall and lanky, or medium and athletic, red hair, brown hair, black hair, short hair, long hair, whatever race.

It really depends on the overall package.

What's funny is that, idealistically, the image I feel most comfortable with is what for a white guy would be an "average" woman:

Caucasian, medium-length (or long) brown hair with some thickness to it, feminine shape (i.e., hips and bottom), average chest, average weight, narrow shoulders, unpronounced/weak chin, large brown eyes.

Hope that helps you somehow.

My own stats: 6'1", thick-set (225lbs), white, shaved head, brown eyes, feeble goatee :)

Answer 4

Happy not complaining,
attractive not ugly or hot
Smart or somewhat smart
Knows money is hard to come by doesn't waste it
Shares the load
Doesn't want a bunch of ladies nights out at the bars
Willing to have childern
Hopefully a religious woman

When I was young it seemed like nothing now I realize its everything.

Answer 5

I'm 6ft 4, 196lb, dark brown hair, British, White.. Personally I love a girl that I can relate too...for instance has a similar music taste as me and a similar sense of humour. Sense of humour is very important.... On the looks side of things, I'm not too fussed. I wouldn't say I'm shallow, but i'm attracted to girls that take care of their bodies (I'm not saying supermodel stick thin, I find them irritating at the best of times). But a general awareness of health is a wonderful thing. Hope this helps? :)

Answer 6

Self deprecating beauty. Truly smart about life, loyal, loving, well balanced emotionally and mentally. Sense of humor should be a given.
Someone who enjoys reading, healthy, open minded, friendly, even tempered, rational.
About 5'4", 120 lb, blond, blue eyed around 35-23-35. Good taste in clothing and well mannered. Got to be a good kisser and dynamite in bed. Good genes for the children's sake.
I am 5'11" dark blond, hazel eyes, with receding hair, 175lb cauc of old aristocratic family, with excellent manners, and a greater than usual appreciation of the woman I love.
And there HAS TO BE love. Just sex doesn't cut it.
Looks like that females who obviously are not in that class, resent my description, giving me thumbs down. Well, too bad, I have wasted enough time on the likes of you and could really care less how you feel about that. And I am NOT sorry about that! :-)
The other answers look like they are all pulling their punches. Trying to be modest, politically correct. You said 'ideal' woman, not one that'll be acceptable!

Answer 7

Im 250lb, bald, 31, caucasion , I ask a lot of relationship questions as well. for your answer, i would like to say a attractive personality would be it, she has to be some what attractive to me, great smile/teeth are important, weight between 120-180, I like women that like to dress nice, education is very important to me I only date college or alumni girls,

Answer 8

Physically she has to be proportional. Her breast size should look balanced to her hips. I don't care about hair color, ethnicity, etc. I generally find american woman difficult because of the lack of domestic/nuturing that many believe is beneath them. Emotionally she has to be nurturing, kind, gentle, and funny. I am a professional with a doctorate degree in my early 30s. I am caucasian 180lbs, 6' tall, blonde and blue eyes. I have been told many time that I am extremely handsome. I am single.

Answer 9

I have a foot fetish so I like women with nice well pedicured feet and toes. I also like long hair and beautiful eyes. I also enjoy a slightly sarcastic sense of humor.

I'm 6 ft. 305 lbs. white, with long dark brown hair

Answer 10

I do have my personal shape and model in mind. However reality would have it that what is really important is a great attitude, smile, personality, humor, friend always and lets not forget those gorgeous legs. WOW is there such a person?