She likes this boy, she has liked him for over a yr but she is too scared to tell him, well the 3 of us were hanging out and he started flirting with me and I flirted back cause hes cute, and now my friend wont talk to me, its not my fault she is nervous around boys and its not like they were dating
2006-09-12 08:31:53 · 20 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
No. She's just immature and jealous at heart. Hopefully she will outgrow it..
2006-09-12 08:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is a hard one cause there's two sides to it. sure, it's not good to flirt w/ a guy that your friend likes BUT at the same time she shouldn't get mad because she has no claim on him because she's being a chicken $h!t. Give her an ultimatum & tell her that...she has no claim on him at this point so if she doesn't want anyone else to flirt with him or get with him then she needs to get some guts & tell him she likes him or have someone help her tell him.
I'm pretty shy around guys too but I at least find some way to tell a guy I like him!
2006-09-12 08:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by §uper ®ose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are too many boys out to lose a friend over. If my friend told me she was interested in a boy, I'd either help he get the boy, or make sure I let the boy know "you're cool, but my girl likes you, so I can't get down with you like that". How would you feel if the situation was reversed? Think about that. Is she a friend worth losing? What if you hook up with this boy and find out he wasn't all that? Now, you're out a man and a friend. Work it out with her. It'll be worth it.
2006-09-12 08:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by dct1218 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is supposed to be your friend and you knew she liked him. I think she has a right to feel upset, but at the same time, he's not her boyfriend so there's nothing for her really to be mad about. Don't flirt back in front of her, it's just not cool.
2006-09-12 08:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by akc1106 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're messed up. You obviously don't know the rules of being friends. Just because she is shy didn't give you the rights to do what you did. If you were a true friend you would have helped her to be more comfortable around the guy. You should've let him know she likes him so he could possible approach her.
Honestly, you're a B****, and you'll get yours.
I hope she drops you and finds a real friend.
2006-09-12 08:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by ~SSIRREN~ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well.. if you are her friend you would have rejected his flirting with you and YOU sure wouldn't have flirted back knowing that she liked him .. some people are just really shy and it takes them time to do things ...and maybe she was waiting for him to make the first move .. WHO KNOWS ??? now what ?
2006-09-12 08:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your friend has a right to be mad, but she shouldn't use it in this situation. Plus, try to see things from her perspective. She's not really mad at you, just hurt. Try to be there for her and assure her that she is your friend and you wouldn't do anything to hurt her. Give her some time and space to get over her dejection and then she'll come around.
2006-09-12 08:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by Missouri LitWit 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your her friend and you do that to her?Your sorry and i wouldnt talk to you again,have some respect for your friend better yet have some foryourself!Your not a trusting friend.You knew how she felt about this guy and you shouldnt even try and cross that line,she has been your friend for 3 years and your willing to loose a friendship over a guy you hardly know ...shame on you your nothing but a skank and i hope you get whats coming to you cause you will.If you were my friend id knock your a$$ out!!
2006-09-12 08:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You seem young. Learn now, never flirt with your friends crush. Nothing good can come of it!
2006-09-12 08:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by Marygoroun(d) 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is mad cause you knew she liked him. You have to be real and tell your friends who you like also. May the best girl win.
2006-09-12 08:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well she doenst really i mean if he doesnt like her then...well thats life..not to sound mean but maybe u shouldnt have flirted back >.<
2006-09-12 08:38:27 · answer #11 · answered by Rinadearest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋