me and the father of my 2 kids were together for 7 yrs and we broke up.well we both went our seperate ways and me and the kids moved back to the south so i could be with my family. i met someone and we kicked it for like 6, 7 months.i got tired of him so any ways me and my kids father got back together.i moved back up north and now we are married but my ex still calls my sister, just saying dumb stuff, one was my girl is late what does that mean?i know he just wants my sister to tell me guess who is having a baby. hes like that just stupid and lies.he'll call her or text her asking for her boyfriend knowing they never chilled together like that.i get so mad knowing he still trying to be cool with my people.it doesnt bother my husband(which he and my sis bf are good friends) that he still communicates with my sis and her man.but i hate it. why does he do that? am i tripping?
2006-09-12 08:09:38 · 13 answers · asked by Moniluv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I guess your ex is not over you and trying to make you jealous. Ignore him and he'll get tired of it. Don't respond to anything he dose and if anyone says to you what he's doing say "who cares"
2006-09-12 08:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by Greeneyed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the very thing he wants,letting it get to you,why else are you asking,if he is just a sad looser dont let it get at you,water off a ducks back should maybe the best thing to tell your sister,it will get back to him that your not in any way bothered with luck he will pack it up as a bad idea,good luck
2006-09-12 08:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, hunny you are tripping over stupid stuff. This man is jealous of your happiness and he obviously doesn't have the relationships that you have with people. It should not offend you that he wants to talk to your family and friends...it should make you happy. It is great that he still wants to be involved. He just wants you to tell him basically that it is okay if he is happy with another woman and it is okay that he is having a child and that YOU are happy for HIM.
2006-09-12 08:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by Natty137 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol time table dates! i'm completely extreme. like set up dates with each and each guy that asks you out and are available to a determination later in case you enjoyed any of them. it's going to shop issues under administration, and not finished chaos
2016-09-30 21:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck yeah your tripping woman!
calm down
let him hang / call them
its good when family members get along w/ your hubby.. hell, my parents don't get along w/ my brother in law nor sister in law but they along w/ my b/f very well and i'm glad they do because that means i can bring him over my parents house w/o there being any problems..
don't teach your kids to be sour
teach them its good to get along w/ everyone
but if your husband is cheating on you than thats another thing.. leave him
if he's not doing anything wrong..just let him be
2006-09-12 08:15:19 · answer #5 · answered by Become a better person 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ex is probably not over you yet and wants to see what you are up too and how things are going, by calling your sister, because he knew if he called you, you would not talk to him.
2006-09-12 08:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he is too silly to understand that is just wrong behavior.... or he is trying to pull your stings - either way you should speak with him and explain your feelings... he is your husband and you should be able to talk about such things.
Do make sure your sis isn't being an instigator though.... love her as you must, make sure she isn't bring this on herself.. you never know right?
best of luck
2006-09-12 08:11:45 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ goddessofraine ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has the right to talk to whomever he wants even your sister or her boyfriend or her boyfriend's cat or whatever. Why does this bother you so much?
2006-09-12 08:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be concerned with it. sounds like you are doing ehat your ex wants ...giving him attention. so what if he calls your sister, don't be interested and give your attention to helping the relationship work with your hubby and child's father. i don't think you are as committed as you think you are since you are still concerned with this guy you got "tired" of.
2006-09-12 08:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sis is like you to she got gel use when she sow us talking.
2006-09-12 08:14:37 · answer #10 · answered by Ely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋