Ok, there is this girl who used to be my friend, we had a falling out and now she is telling the whole town she wants so beat me up. My boyfriend has college classes with her and came home today and told me he is goin to her house to get his hair braided! Am I wronge for telling him that I think he should not go because it will hurt my feelings? I know it doesn't involve him, but I don't want everyone to think the she can say these things about me and him also think it is ok but going over there and being buddy buddy...am I wronge?
2006-09-12 08:06:23 · 26 answers · asked by Mother_Of_2 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
there are plenty things wrong here.
1 - wrong is not spelled with an e
2 - hair braiding on men is not cool
3 - he shouldnt hang out with anyone who is gossiping about you
yes, its okay to tell him not to hang out with her, if you have an open and honest relationship, then he should be able to listen and understand
2006-09-12 08:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by xrionx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend lets this person braid his hair, he is telling you that he has no problem with the way she treated you. He doesn't have to get all militant against her and threaten her or anything, but spending any time with her shows he does not have any respect for the way you feel. She will also think you are weak and may try to poison your boyfriend's mind against you, since he has to sit there and let her braid his hair.
2006-09-12 15:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by LNH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend should find someone else to braid his hair. If he wants to maintain friendly terms with this girl, he should be honest about that with you and not try to mask his friendship with her by going over there for her hair-braiding services.
If it hurts your feelings that he's still friends with this girl, you should tell him. You are definitely entitled to some bitter feelings toward this girl if she is threatening to beat you up!
2006-09-12 15:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by Magic 8 Ball 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. Knowing this conflict between you two, now, especially now is when your bf must be in your corner and back you up. What kind of bf. would play games like that, one that doesn't really care enough for how you feel.
No you are not wrong. Maybe it's time to think your relationship with him or time to have a serious talk.
2006-09-12 15:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't wrong, you shouldn't have to ask him not to go though, he should respect the situation and get his hair braided elsewhere. That is a lot of time for him to be alone with her, she may try something just to get you upset.
2006-09-12 15:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your spelling of wrong is wrong. Outside of that- I would question HER motives in having him over. And he's an idiot for going unless he has designs on her and no longer wants to see you. I would challenge him going to her place and ask why it was necessary if she's threatened you. Is he outta his mind?!?!?!
Hope things work out and try to have a better day!
2006-09-12 15:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by Coo coo achoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, "wrong" is not spelled with a e at the end.
second of all, sounds pretty petty. i mean really do you live in some tiny little hick town where everyone knows everyone else? if so, go and beat her up!
2006-09-12 15:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you expect from a guy who gets his hair braided?
2006-09-12 15:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don´rt think you are wrong. Your boyfriend is showing a real lack of good decision making here...Good Luck!
2006-09-12 15:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by Tristansdad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with him and watch her braid his hair. That'll surprise her when you show up, and guarantee her not talkin crap about you with your boyfriend.
2006-09-12 15:08:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋