ever since he told me he can't see me anymore. i can't stop thinking about him. i even find myself calling more often with any excuse just to get close. he says we can be friends but we can not get intimate. since i questioned myself "am i in love" with him does that mean i'm not in love with him. because when a person is in love one automatically knows it without questioning oneself , right? plus why did these feelings pop up after he broke it off with me not before. i always felt we were good friends before the break up, but now he is distant and cold towards me. he gives me short answers and rushes to hang up on phone calls, when before i couldn't get him to shut up about any topic let alone hang up the phone. what happened? could i be better off without him, or is there something worth holding on to. could these feelings be seriously about him or about my ego and pride? you see a part of me cares and the other part is struggling to care. help!
2006-09-12 07:57:18 · 6 answers · asked by non-curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think u r in love with the idea of love....i have been thru something that is very similar, but i think u r not in love with him, i can say im 100% sure, u r just obsessed, and u hate the idea of losing him...
2006-09-12 08:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by Drowned in English! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK there's a old saying my mom use to tell me "You never miss the water until the well runs dry"
In other words you miss him now but he feels you didn't appreciate him and now You think you're missing something. If you loved him you would know. It sounds like your ego is wounded. Leave him alone before he ends up hurting you by saying something really nasty because right now it sounds like you're stalking him, so far he is trying to let you down easy but if you keep calling it can get bad. I don't know why it ended but i do know as a woman You should not keep chasing him. He may start thinking you are stalking him.
2006-09-12 15:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Raven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pride over love
2006-09-12 15:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your pride is hurt. You guys have broken up...why are you continuously calling him? You can not make him want to be with you so you need to move on and let him do the same.
2006-09-12 14:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-12 15:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by Ernesto O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, when someone leaves you, it is like the old saying....Don't know what you have til its gone
2006-09-12 15:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by cherrygurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋