I have never cheated. I never will. I'm far perfect, but I could never do something like that. I've been cheated on in a past relationship years ago, and the pain was almost unbearable. I see so many unfaithful people and stories of cheaters on this forum. How can you bring yourself to do such a thing to someone you love, someone who trusts you with all their heart? At some point don't you think to stop or not to let it go too far? Don't you realize that you're deeply scarring your relationship?
2006-09-12 07:51:57 · 4 answers · asked by ☆skyblue 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I cheated once and so has my recent bf but not on each other. Both of us know how it feels and don't ever want to feel it again. It has got to be the worst feeling ever to know that you have done nothing wrong but it still happened. The worst part is waking up and having to start over when you weren't ready till the incident to be alone.
Because I have been in both possitions of being cheated and having cheated I could never do anything like that again. Regardless of what end you are on, it isn't right. To answer don't people realize they are scarring your relationship the answer is NO. It wasn't for me anyway. I was being very selffish and was only thinking about what I wanted not what was best for the other person.
But NOW and since that happened, I could never bring myself to do it ever again. Hope that helps.
2006-09-12 08:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by Redneck Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every time I'm with my boyfriend I'm cheating, but I can't help it...I have a strong desire to be with a man, that's something my wife can't give me....it's not my fault I'm bisexual, I can't help that I have to have sex with men as well as women....how do I go through with it? I show up at his house, and take it like a man...then I go home to my wife and keep her happy. It truly is the best of both worlds, if my wife would only agree to let me do this in the open.....she had an affair on me long before I ever cheated on her and that's why I don't feel guilty.
2006-09-12 15:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by bimale694u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that cheaters are selfish people who convince themselves that they will never get caught and that what their spouse doesn't know won't hurt.
The reality is that the truth usually comes out and it really hurts and the lies just make it worse.
2006-09-12 14:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cheating not murder
2006-09-12 14:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by Xae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋