about something that you thought was horrific, heinous and unforgivable and something you wanted to hide but you told them anyway? How did it work out for you and that other person?
2006-09-12 07:46:12 · 11 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
that you THOUGHT was horrific, heinous and unforgivable...it was not necessarliy any of those thngs in reality! Sometimes people think terrible thoughts about the simplest and small and innocent of things, yes?
2006-09-12 07:58:47 · update #1
About a month ago I told my sister about the woman I hired for sex in Thailand... it went over a lot better than I thought, she was highly entertained, and hasn't spread the news on to my parents... I'm not sure I'm ready to come clean with them yet.
2006-09-12 07:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I make it a point never to live with a lie. So I don't lie to anyone. And I don't DO horrific, heinous or unforgivable things. I believe totally in the maxim that we should treat others as we wish ourselves to be treated.
2006-09-12 07:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it was something a family member had ignored happening to me i told my hubby he makes having a relationship with the person i have since forgiven almost impossible i told so he would be supportive and it wound up hurting me more than it helped.
2006-09-12 08:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by crysram27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope....sometimes it better not to tell someone. 2 reasons:
1) you'll hurt them and loose there trust
2) if you tell them you will no longer feel guilty and you wouldn't have respect for them if they forgave you...it's better to live with the guilt because it will ensure you'll never do it again.
*What they don't know can't hurt them*
2006-09-12 07:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some recently come clean to me. It hurt like crap!
2006-09-12 07:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by ♥--->{Shauntee}<---♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have is meber of AA, and we clean every time we have a meeting, anonyme alcoholics
2006-09-12 07:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by hans o 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell no why make life even more miserable.
the illusion of happiness is better.
2006-09-12 07:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is easier to gain forgiveness than premission!
2006-09-12 07:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by Tonya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-09-13 23:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by catweazle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not recently but thanks for reminding me
2006-09-12 08:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by vick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋