what do you think of someone who refuses to pay bills when they have the money in their pocket to pay it? that lets the water and phone get shut off repeatedly only to have to pay a reconnect fee to get it turned back on........when they had the money to pay it to begin with. a 36 year old man who talks his mother into paying his house payment every month just so he can have the extra money in his pocket? this is what my boyfriend does and i just dont understand it. he makes very good money but seems to have a phobia about letting it go. i have a job to have my own money but i live with him and it is to the point i feel guilty about living there because he has his mom pay his bills then HE BLOWS HIS MONEY he has 5 trucks he pours money into and im about to lose my mind
would you walk or run from this guy
2006-09-12 07:41:12 · 8 answers · asked by iammissmess 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
baby girl, run. run as fast as you can. he's 36 and he won't change. run before you catch his looserexia decease.
2006-09-12 07:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop discounting yourself and find someone worthy of your self discipline. As long as you tolerate his irresponsibility it will continue. He needs a semester or two at the School of Hard Knocks- if his mother will allow it.
2006-09-12 14:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by kurtrisser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like dating mama's boys? This fool obviously has responsiblity issues and needs to grow up. I'd tell him either to change or else your leaving, period. No if's or but's, no compromise.
2006-09-12 14:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is financially irresponsible.
Get away now before his bad decisions start to affect your life.
Run. And don't look back.
2006-09-12 15:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN. Eventually he will expect you to pay for things.
2006-09-12 14:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No emotion, just go ... now. Bye! Bye! Do not question. Do not ask. Just go, or take him as he is and never speak of it again.
2006-09-12 14:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by Pey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him be him. worry about yourself and just take care of your end of the bargain
2006-09-12 14:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by hoecake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him or her and see what happens
2006-09-12 14:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by santa paula gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋