we've been together 4 years...after a yr we wer together his brother and nephew died.
Before all of that happened we had the perfect realationship...had sex everynight and kissed 24/7 and were totally honest to eachother..
nowadays he won't touch me or talk to me. ive put up with this for 3 years....we have had sex like 4 times since then and everytime was fantastic
ive got his little baby girl he loves her but doesn't show it. shows her no love or affection, it worries me. he's really quiet, his in this room at the moment lying down on the bed looking tottaly ******** with little sasha sleeping next to him, he's been to loads of docs but nothing helps...i feel like crying
whenever i see him his so low....even at work sometimes....he works in a bank...i get calls from his colleuge and boss person asking whats wrong with him...
his like in his own world....i wanna go to his world...
2006-09-12 07:37:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell him to wake up
2006-09-12 07:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by mcbrian2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does no longer choose you to pass, they gained't allow you to contained in the appointment. The primary practitioner will in basic terms allow you to if he has a similar opinion. All you're able to do is be there for him, be supportive, do no longer accuse him of no longer attempting to get help, ... seems such as you do no longer have confidence him or have confidence he will do it. you will desire to be there for him yet in addition enable him notwithstanding area, privateness he needs on a similar time as coping with this. As a prior respond reported melancholy hurts. It extremely does. I be stricken by melancholy, have for years. i'm on meds, see my primary practitioner often and no longer choose the treatment. yet i'll continually have "melancholy" and would take the meds. i be attentive to it substitute into very stressful for my childrens contained in the start, i substitute into no longer a chuffed individual, no capability and too snappy. the great ingredient is my childrens love me and popular that mom substitute into like that yet substitute into attempting to get better. My ex on the different hand desperate i substitute into packed with sh!t, mendacity, lazy, notwithstanding else he mentioned, I realy do no longer keep in mind. So, he's the ex now. melancholy is merely as stressful on the persons around the depressed individual because it extremely is on the depressed individual. merely 'be there' for him. it relatively is all you're able to do. do no longer push, yet do no longer back away, shrink back or push him away. I want you success and capability. it extremely is an extremely stressful ingredient to handle, and he needs your love and help precise now. you additionally can choose help, as in treatment so you may be attentive to a thank you to handle it. If he does no longer choose you at his appointments, seek for out a therapist of your very own. or you could carry a lot interior and it would desire to construct up. dangle in there, on your sake, his and the toddler.
2016-09-30 21:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry but sound to me lie your being used ... if he is all the sudden change liek this it con only mean one thing he has foudn some on else and lsot intrest im sry if i sound a bit to harm full but it may be true
2006-09-12 07:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by caosanrage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't go to his world, STOP... You need to get him to a depression Dr. He is actually separating himself from feeling anything, he thinks it will stop the pain but it won't please please call the Dr. Don't leave your child with him alone. I have a bipolar husband sometimes good sometimes not so good your man has gone over the edge. Good luck
2006-09-12 07:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anyone else thinks this is a lie, please explain why you think that. I am curious to know. And quit with all this crap about, "Read the bible to him," Sunshine (below) you G*D D*MN FOOl.
2006-09-12 07:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to see a councelor or something
2006-09-12 07:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by Star86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PRAY AND ASK GOD TO HELP . READ THE BIBLE TO HIM. HE HAS TO DEAL WITH HIS PROBLEMS TO FIX THEM. GETTING HIM TO ADMIT HE HAS SOME SERIOUS PROBLEMS. START PRAYING RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!!! GOD BLESS YOU AND UR BOYFRIEND.
2006-09-12 07:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a lie.
2006-09-12 07:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by ♪♫jessy♫♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋