I have been friends with him since we were little kids and then the other day he came out and told that he was bysexual I dont know if he is just trying to make a joke out of it or he is telling the truth.
2006-09-12 07:36:43 · 20 answers · asked by Michael H 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
No, what does it matter what is preference is..
2006-09-15 06:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have gay friends and i've been hit on by aquiantances. Perhaps because I maintain a pretty sexually open and active life and i may appear to them as being a player. However, I can tell when there interest is building up and in a straight forward way I usually say something along the lines of I'm down with a lot of things, but i don't swing that way. It just hasn't ever done anything for me. You give a gay man a straight answer like that you come off secure in your sexality and believe me he isn't trying to convert you.
If he ask, have you tried it? Whether you answer yes or no, if you follow up with but like i said , is doesn't do anything for me, the issue is dead.
2006-09-12 15:12:45 · answer #2 · answered by quarterton2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously you know he is a good person and a good friend since you have been friends for so long, he is still the same person
who he always was, you should break up a friendship unless you start to feel really uncomfrontable(sp?). Hope that helps!
2006-09-12 21:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk with your friend, if you are truly concerned about this, maybe afraid he will make a pass at you or something, tell him. And if you are really bothered by it, and cannot work something out with him to keep it private or whatever, then do what you feel is right.
I have never really had to make that choice myself, but when I was a kid, playing house with some friends, one of the other girls decided to play "husband" with us and started kissing and feeling us up, that really bothered me, but since she wasn't really a close friend, i just quit playing with her, mainly cause she kept pushing it and wanting to do it more.
2006-09-12 14:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by sandrarosette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person has been a friend of yours for along time so him been gay, st8 or bi should make no diffrence to the friendship that you already have....Just ask him straight out if they where telling you the truth the over day !!
2006-09-12 17:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will still stay friends with him but i will make research about him if ever he is a bysexual or nt and i will be careful with him . If ever he want me
2006-09-12 15:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by coldtom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were friends since childhood, why are you considering not being hid friend now? Cause he was confident enough to confide in you? Because you think he might make a pass? Heteros, get over yourselves, we don't all want you.
2006-09-12 14:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on you. If he has been a lifelong friend and has never bothered you or shown any sign of being "bisexual" then continue your friendship. Unfortunately, I would rather hear him tell you he is gay than bisexual. Please tell him to use condoms always. Have a serious talk with him to find out what he really means.
2006-09-12 14:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by makeitright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was making a joke, he would have already told you he was just kidding. He is no different than he was before he told you he was bi. He told you because he thought your friendship was strong enough to handle it. Don't let him down.
2006-09-12 14:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by WEIRDRELATIVES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was not apparent to you since you both were little and you have been friends for years than he is still the same person you were always friends with, his sexual preference should not be a factor in your friendship now
2006-09-12 14:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by awigadoga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
n,o as long as he know where you stand on the issue and he doesn't try to come on to you then y would u stop being his friend.
is he not the same person u have known all this time?
2006-09-12 14:41:22 · answer #11 · answered by Znai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋