expect me to fill there every need when i am super busy and have others on hold. or just basic foolishness. like me scolding someone for yelling at one of the older men here.. and he says no you should respect me when we ae equal.. agh
2006-09-12 07:23:08 · 9 answers · asked by chosen_isaiah61 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
A woman is always expected to fill every need.
You're cleaning the house or washing dishes and your man comes and starts unzipping you.
See, you are EXPECT to fullfill every need!
That's your job in life!
Now, stand up for yourself or just be a plaything.
It's up to you!
2006-09-12 07:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Working is hard. People come from various backgrounds and may not share the same ideals as you. Some have dysfunctional households, addictions, etc. Set boundaries according to your job description and, if necessary, theirs. Be polite and say, "I'd like to help you, but I'm just so busy right now." Going to a supervisor may get you labeled as, "not a team player." Just make sure you fulfill the duties in your job description. If pulled off by another task by supervision, keep a little log of who, when, and how long it took you to do it before you could get back to your own duties.
Most likely you wouldn't be working if you didn't need the income, so focus on that and let the extraneous stuff go in one ear and out the other. Say good morning to everyone and go about your day.
Good luck to you.
2006-09-12 07:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dog eat dog world, they are takin advantage of your kindness.
U need to either let it ride and ignore them.
Its best at work to do your best, be kind to others, and if someone gets on your nerves, keep a bible verse in your brain and dont say nothing, just repeat the bible verse in your brain and they will leave u alone.....the power of the bible is magical
2006-09-12 07:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
denzel said it best in crimson tide when he said you must remain professional even in the face of stupidity. (i'm not sure he said professional, it's been a while since i've seen that movie.)
2006-09-12 07:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by practicalwizard 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tune them out. Pretend not to hear them. Look busy and do your best to avoid them. If you can't avoid them start being annoying to them and see how they like it.
2006-09-12 07:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to keep calm when dealing with immaturity.Good luck.
2006-09-12 07:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by racquel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show your disinterest in your facial expressions. People get the point and they feel stupid.
2006-09-12 07:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by cashmaker81 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"There's a time and place for everything but now it's neither." He/she has to wait until you have more time to address it correctly.
2006-09-12 07:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Deep breathe and meditate...............them away.
2006-09-12 07:26:35 · answer #9 · answered by lollipoppett2005 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋