2006-09-12 07:19:46 · 26 answers · asked by pramod_bhikhampur p 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
You cant judge which love is the real love...it all depends on your own feelings...you can say if someone does not reciprocate your feelings then your love is true...what if that person starts loving you? will your love stop being true?
2006-09-12 08:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by freemind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! one sided love is not actually love, it is an infactuation, if the one loving is not being loved in return then its called being used and is a very harsh thing that happens all day, everyday all over the world and i think it really sux and is not cool becaus it can make ppl feel like crap. it has happened to me and took me way longer than it should have to break free from it and i feel for the ones currently in that situation, because it hurts and u must be strong... i mean i still love the dude im just not letting him know and trying my hardest to move on
2006-09-12 14:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by punkypeace420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, love is never wasted, regardless of the other's participation. There is always a lesson and a next step in your own Spiritual Unfoldment. Love and learn. Note though, the difference between love and attachment. Actual love always considers the other's point of view and acts with regard for the highest and best in the other. Attachment only looks for self-gratification.
2006-09-12 14:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONE SIDED LOVE. Plz dont think me a cynic. One sided lovers r generally sick. They r timid, shy or irritating. Their love is always illusionary they live in dreams wasting their energy, time, contacts n most importantly LIFE. If one cannot turn his onesided love into twosided then better he stop, if not he will end up losing his self respect, concentration, friends finally himself.
Dont go by the filmy style of love its confined 2 films only not 2 life. Ur life n people around u(family, friends) r more important than this bug. love is true but its perfect if n only it unites two.
Make it two way or break it mid way.
2006-09-13 03:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not even if it was two sided, not for some years. You grave, desire, even lust, but true and actual love takes time, and happens when two individuals become one. First, both need to have reached full emotional maturity, when the female is 24 and the male is 30. In this manner, the male is producing the hormone that bounds him to the women.
2006-09-12 14:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A loving relationship is something mutual. It involves both giving and taking.
On there other hand, you can love somebody by just being available. It's about coming forward to give when the other has a need... may be physical, may be emotional. However it is generally on the emotional side.
2006-09-12 14:30:08 · answer #6 · answered by shijuvn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself: does one-sided love pertain any action? When your heart beats 10,000,000 times in a second, and your mind and soul have drowned completely in fantasy world affecting the normality of your body's biological and mental processes 24/7, then it is actual love.
But is it factual or fictional? That is the question...
2006-09-12 14:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by lebanese_gentleman2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think you r wasting your time and energy over someone who give a dame to you. This is not called as love at all.
Love means sincerity, honesty, accepting the other partner as they are and not trying to impose things on them. Day by day, year after year the love for the other will never fade away. It remains as lively as ever or even more.
I'm experiencing it. Its wonderful.
2006-09-12 15:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by kavitha g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if other one having the same moto as u...
love is not a small thing that u can take it in ur one side pocket..u r here bcoz .Love is in this world...so love is not onesided or bothsided ...Actual love is somthing that u can't define
2006-09-13 06:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by Amrit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love calls for openness and keenness to understand each other.If anyone,lacks this,the love is partial,for reasons known to the person concerned.One sided love is no love at all and it is dangerous as you can become maniac and will permanently incapacitate you to realise the values of love as attribute for healthy living.Try to be trasparent,open ,understanding ,trusting and learning to love....
2006-09-12 14:43:51 · answer #10 · answered by ramraj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋