ive talked to her about some the subject but im affraid my ideas might scare her off lol. she says no freaky stuff or no whips n chains. i know i will have to talk to her about it but what is the best way?
2006-09-12 07:17:00 · 19 answers · asked by m203 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well some of the advice wont work being as im in the army and being deployed right now.
2006-09-12 07:24:50 · update #1
as far as kinkier nething new besides regular sex just a lil spice is all thats needed n i love her n will nvr leave her no matter what the sex is like.
2006-09-12 07:30:16 · update #2
Maybe get off the computer and put her first. If you are meeting her needs maybe she would be more open to meeting yours. And what exactly do you consider kinky? Are you being a bit too freaky? If so, you should have thought about that before you got married.
2006-09-12 07:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try a little new thing at a time. Don't pull out the big guns until she starts to think that kinky is good. Once her curiosity starts flowing I bet she will be pulling new moves on you. Just don't force the situation. SLOWLY is the key.
2006-09-12 14:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by WOOOOO Whooo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well a good start may be porn vidios,let her see the enjoyment that she is missing out on,or if she would rather not to judge befor you tryor if that don`t work is it worth all the trouble
2006-09-12 14:22:15 · answer #3 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Beg, whine, snivel and plead. If that doesn't work, try extortion and blackmail. Threaten to become a hermit monk.
Playful manor? Would that be Hugh Hefner's mansion?
2006-09-12 14:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Rent a video
2006-09-12 14:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it seems to me that she is a bit shy in the bedroom, as a female and wife, i've learned to listen to my man and be willing to try new things.
First, let her choose the new thing to try, then next time its your turn to choose.
They have this really great board game for the bedroom, spices things up!
Give that shot!
2006-09-12 14:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by koleebear 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well why do you not start things off slow with those ideas. Do not start S&M. Start by doing different positions and adding toys. If you take it slow, you will not have any problems. Just be kind and caring with her, and in time she will accept it.
2006-09-12 14:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
show her what you plan on doing, and then go really slow in the bedroom. But at the same time she has to be willing to go there, if she is not then you are wasting your time.
2006-09-12 14:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get on the Adam and Eve web site or the mailing list and see what interests HER.
2006-09-12 14:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by steelypen 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
make her feel good about herself and keep her feeling how much you love her. Start small and be gentle, try something small on her and work up, try role playing.
2006-09-12 14:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋