It seems that women find gay men so attractive. I'm a hetero and would like to learn what characteristics they have that I can learn to attract more women.
2006-09-12 07:10:11 · 22 answers · asked by Sexual Chocolate 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Because they are not trying to get into our pants, they usually have fabulous taste in shoes, clothing, etc...., they willingly go dancing or shopping at any time, they don't bore us to death with sports, should I go on???
2006-09-12 07:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I think it's because gay men often dress up and try to look good a lot more than straight men, and that's attractive. Single men have a habit of living, looking and smelling like, well, bachelors, gay men usually are pretty clean and look good. That's my opinion anyway. Every guy I meet that I'm attracted to is either gay, taken, or won't give me the time of day =b. Often I cut to the quick by asking them which one it is.
2016-03-26 22:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like gay men because most of them are fun to be around and there is no commitment issues about being around them and they don't want to jump right in to bed with you..
the most of them are great dancers. and they will treat you with the respect that you deserve.
Non -gay men are just thinking as soon as they pick you up when they are going to be able get get some sex.. they don't know how to go out and have a good time. and just sit and talk.. they have no imagination past the head in there pants.
there for a gay man is much better company and you can have a good time while you are with them.
As for your attracting a woman or women as you stated.. show a woman a good time and forget about sex and you will be able to go out and have a great time..
a woman will let you know when sex is in the picture for you.
2006-09-12 07:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They are safe and not a threat...Women love gay men because they can relate to us and we can talk to them like they are one of our girlfriends. They also give us insight on men as well.
One of my dearest friends is gay and I love him to pieces...
As a hetero male you can't learn their characteristics, your straight & they are gay...Doesn't work that way honey...
Try being a friend to women before a boyfriend, actually listen to what we have to say and be genuinely interested in what we are talking about & doing...That's always a good start to attracting a woman...
2006-09-12 08:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since gay guys aren't worried about attracting women and having to maintain that 'manliness' they feel freer to express their feelings, have non-masculine interests (while a straight man may like clothes, flowers, or puppy dogs, his other straight friends would probably laugh if he pursued them. No so with gay man and his gay friends). I think because of the shared interests (other men, non masculine interests) plus the lack of sexual pressure from gay men, women find them attractive.
2006-09-12 07:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I also do not want to stereotype but gay men know who they are and don't give a damn...openly gay men are 100% comfortable with themselves as a person, because they have accepted who they are, which means they have a positive energy about them that people like to be around....they have learned to laugh at life, to enjoy the walk along the way, to smell the flowers, They are honest with themselves which means they are honest with you....I will say this I don't think it's just "Gay" men It's People in general who are comfortable with who they are and make you feel good about yourself when you are around them.. that are let's face it .attractive and you find yourself wanting to be around that person.........But It does seem that does fit a Gay Persona a lot.....
2006-09-12 07:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by Erin O. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gay men give a bubbly aura that most women love.... Most men aren't good at expressing their true feelings, but gay men are very good at it. They're frank, tactless and carefree.
Gay men never show the stereotypical "it's a guy thing" behaviour.
2006-09-12 07:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
<<<< is not attracted to gay men... BUT I am guessing that some women think of it like this : "why do we want what we know we can't have." The desire of having things we can't is very strong at times. After getting what we want some realize it wasn't that great so why did we want it ! ? ! and then we move on to the next great "want but can't have" obstacle. : ) Just a theory !
2006-09-12 07:15:27 · answer #8 · answered by Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's their karma. Gay guys (for the most part) are easy to talk to and hang around. They don't act that they are a bad a*s or act all macho. Women can talk to them like they would one of their girlfriends. Plus, they can go shopping with them and not listen to them b*tch the entire time.
2006-09-12 07:13:44 · answer #9 · answered by teeniey37 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's because they are more feminine in how they approach relationships. What I mean by this is that they are often more comfortable expressing their emotions and being the "sensitive" guy. This isn't true for all gay men.
2006-09-12 07:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to stereotype but gay men smile a lot. They've got this charm radiating from them. Can you do that?
2006-09-12 07:13:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋