has anyone had a strange living arrangement like this while pregnant? i could no longer stay in my dorm since i am 6 months pregnant so my ex. bf set me up too live with one of his friends in an apartment. it is strange living with a stranger. just wondering?
2006-09-12 07:06:40 · 6 answers · asked by amanda h 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i move in tommorow and it is two bedrooms ajoined with a curtain no doors only on the bathroom small kitchen and living room so its really open.
2006-09-12 07:11:42 · update #1
his friend matt seems nice enough but i have only seen him a few times around school
2006-09-12 07:13:54 · update #2
i cant go home because i need to stay in this state for college so i am stuck here.
2006-09-12 07:15:06 · update #3
my ex. bf is babys daddy .
2006-09-12 07:19:16 · update #4
Yes but it won't be as bad. The stranger isn't a complete stranger. If your ex doesn't have a vendetta against you then it should be fine.
2006-09-12 07:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let your EX boyfriend set you up to live with another guy--a complete stranger, no less??? Why can't you continue to live in a dorm? I can understand why they wouldn't let you live there after the baby is born, but you still have 3 months to go! Are you going to stay in this apartment with this guy Matt after your baby is born? If so (and if he's a typical college kid) NOBODY will be happy. He'll be busy drinking and partying and wanting to stay up all hours of the night while your newborn is *trying* to sleep, and when your baby is up and having colicky fussy crying spells, this guy will be trying to sleep and can't, so HE'LL be the one who's upset.
if I were you, I'd look for a cheap apartment NOW while you still have the energy to move.
2006-09-12 09:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call that a "strange" living arrangement, its just a living arrangement. However, once that baby is born and is waking up crying several times during the night, crying during the day, and just generally being...well...a baby...odds are the stranger isn't going to be supportive at all. Especially if your ex set you up in the apartment of another college kid. Odds are you are going to have to combat trying to get your baby to go to sleep while your roommate has parties, while he/she is trying to study, etc. The living arrangement is fine for pregnancy, but after the baby is born you are going to have to find somewhere else to go.
If it is possible to transfer to a college closer to home that may definitely be something that you want to look into. It's extraordinarily difficult to take care of a newborn, support yourself, and go to school at the same time with no help.
2006-09-12 07:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by A.R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady, go home to your family - if your boy friend want let you live with him - than go H O M E ! You are going to need some help in the very near future - and a strange person may not be there to help you all the time - Your boy friend seems to be very questionable to begin with - Take care of yourself and that baby first - excuse me, but to hell with him -
The college you are attending might be able to help you - or maybe the church you attend - most churches will help young women like yourself - Please do not go live with that stranger - if you can't go home than get some help
2006-09-12 07:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not strange at all, people do it all the time.
Pick up any newspaper and you will finds lots of ads starting with "room mate wanted".
You are actually lucky it is someone known to (at least) your ex, but then again I would be a little suspicious of his motives in helping you out.
Is he the babies daddy?
If so, why did he dump you when you were pregnant with his child?
If not, where is the babies daddy, and why aren't you living with him?
2006-09-12 07:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really see anything strange with it unless they are creepy or something. If you have a weird feeling about it though I wouldnt stay there for very long. Trust your gut and good luck!!
2006-09-12 07:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by slim27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋