How Do I Tell Them?

Question

Im pregnant n i dont know how to tell my parents can sumone tell me whoi should tell first n how i should tell them.

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Answer 1

How old are you? Maybe before telling your parents you should talk to an adult you trust, like a counselor. It's always good to tell the truth and you know that your parents are there for you and will love you no matter what.I'm really sorry, I wish I had a better answer.

good luck :-)

Answer 2

Wow this question brings back some memories. Telling my parents was the scariest thing ever. But I just did it. We were all sitting around talking and I just blurted it out...through tears.
My mother went crazy on me, but my father kept a cool head. After the initial shock was over they were both very supportive.

Just sit them down and say you have something serious to talk about. You will feel better once the truth comes out.
Good luck honey. God bless

Answer 3

You type like you're young. I've been through that. You just have to tell them. There is no easy way...expect tears. There probably won't be yelling, if there is you should just leave the room and ignore it. Contact Planned Pregnancy or another teenage agency in you area and see kinds of assistance you can get. Also, I've wondered this for a while...what does "<3" mean?

Answer 4

You really have to just do it. Just be honest and accept that you made a mistake and you're prepared to deal with the consequences. I think they'll respect you more for being mature and telling them now than waiting and getting into deeper trouble. You might be surprised about their reaction - lots of parents are really supportive and that's what you need right now. Good Luck x

Answer 5

How old are you? You seem to be either a teen or a very young adult. Either way, be very honest from the start and come clean with your parents. Sure they might get upset, but they will cool down. Find support where you can in friends, family, church, etc. Best of luck and don't let this possible blessing bring you down.

Answer 6

well, first of all, it depends on the situation that you are in. If you are with the father and married, then generally its not a big deal to just announce it. However, from experience, I found that if you arent with the father, or not married etc. it might be easier to tell one parent that you feel closest to and then go tell the other one together. Hope I could help!

Answer 7

How old are you.. there is a spell check on here! Good God I hope you are old enough to at least drive.. Where is the Daddy to your unborn? I think both of you should sit all the parents down together and tell them.. or at least start with your parents and then his... Good luck and just make sure YOU YOU and YOU raise the child not the grandparents!!

Answer 8

Believe it or not, your parents were your age once... so just say it... the 'bandaid' idea is exactly right.

Mom Dad, I need to tell you I'm pregnant. Do they know the dad? Is there a future (you know marriage, etc) with the dad? If so, then he should be there too.

If the future is just you and baby, then, ask for their help.

good luck.

Answer 9

You maybe afraid bcuz your parents may be disappointed in you but u can't hide it for too long. You gotta fess up sooner or later, the best thing to do is tell your mother first- mothers usually understand better than fathers

Answer 10

Just sit them down and tell them. Be prepared to discuss your options. Just understand that while they will want the best for you, ultimately what you choose to do is YOUR choice, not theirs.

If they yell, so be it. You did the "crime" now you're gonna do the "time."

Good luck with that one.