My boyfriend of 3 years was arrested and is now in jail, he told me to go pick up his things from his GYM locker and I did.
I found pictures of him with another girl in a restaurant hugging each other, he said there was nothing beteween them and they went out just once and she is no longer in town, because she moved away, this is the third time he does it , and its been different girls, I am so in love with him that I keep forgiving him.
What should I do? I feel so bad because he is in jail and I feel like he needs me now more than ever, should I leave him or wait until he is released
2006-09-12 06:18:51 · 17 answers · asked by 0022 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Bad boy's seem more exciting than the good, nose to the grind stone average fella. All you'll get from this or any other bad boy is grief and more grief. Quit wasting your time and feeling's on someone like him, he's NOT worth even you thinking about. Was he worrying what he was doing to you when he cheated, not for one second. If they're cheaters they will alway's be cheaters, if they are jail birds, they are likely to be just that from now on. Be good to yourself and don't let him destroy your self esteem . Believe me, it can and will happen before you know it if you continue the road you're on with that looser. Be smart, Run, don't walk away from him and all like him. Good luck to you.
2006-09-12 06:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. You deserve better. Forgiveness is good but the third time is a strike out in baseball. You need to move on and realize you can live without his cheating a**! There are plenty of other guys out there.
2006-09-12 06:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by RelationGuru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you're so forgiving is because you have that disease we call blind love!! This isn't a healthy relationship hon! Why would you want to stay with a man that is subjecting you to possible STD's, him being in jail, can't you see what a low-life he is? If you can't, then picture the two of you in the same situation 20 yrs. from now cuz it will be like that! Do ya want to have your children with him to have a loser of a dad? Run as fast as you can from this relationship NOW!! He's not worth spit on the ground. You aren't "in love" with him, you're "in"fatuated with him!
2006-09-12 06:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by yokrem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dog eat dog world....go out and have some fun and find a man that loves u and not every sue, sally,jane he sees.
U deserve better girl, this guy is jail is too immature for u.
And its probably lust instead of love or he wouldnt be in jail
2006-09-12 06:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait , stay calm and just keep counting how many times he will cheat . Then use that data in MS excel to plot a graph .
Once you get the graph , study if its linear cheating or a quadratic one . Then in both the cases you can predict when he is going to cheat again by deriving an equation from it.
2006-09-12 06:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by philanthropic 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't have taken him back after the first time if he was cheating on you. It shows you might have low self esteem, you can do better than him. Besides since you have let him do this two more times why should he stop you'll just let him to it again.
2006-09-12 06:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by greenlantern1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Com eon you give the word Women a really bad name! come on think he cheated on you 3 times you should of broke it off the 1st time he cheated on you
2006-09-12 06:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by labonitameli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it clean right now while he is in jail. He will get the message. It will be hard but you don't need a cheater.
2006-09-12 06:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He dun derserve another chance. 3 times is a lot! If I were you, he wont even get the second chance.
2006-09-12 06:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by Hermione Malfoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let him cheat 3 times?? I would have been left his a**
2006-09-12 06:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by tantalizin1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋