All the girls that allow me inside have complained of pain probably due to half-way penetration. I've slept with several vergins but never brock the himen, and one later came to me claming to have lost her verginity to someone else. My current partner really get's tired after a single session because because of over-lifting her leggs to allow penetration. This is because the small man cannot just go in with leggs down. I've tried from behind but it just cant go beyond the lips. You guys, argue it out.
2006-09-12 06:11:35 · 17 answers · asked by wagiothe 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I’ll try to answer that as a guy with a small penis based on honest conversations that I‘ve had with girls. Size does matter so don’t feel bad. Some women say that it doesn’t matter but what that really means is that it doesn’t matter to them, obviously it does to you. Nothing wrong with that as long as you don’t play with his feelings. It appears to me that you don’t want to do that. Which is cool!
You need to see it from a different angle, most men would prefer a tight vagina over a loose one. That’s no secret, tighter feels better. Vaginas come in all sizes just like penises. Some can be short but wide, short and narrow, long and narrow, and on and on. You may in fact have a large vagina, I mean nothing bad by that, really! I hope you know what I mean. You may in fact need a larger penis to satisfy you.
Keep in mind that the longer the penis,the more positions that you both can enjoy. I’ll give you an example, I once went to a park in Hollywood and I ran into a couple who were having sex in public. It was a lonely part of the park so I doubt that they expected anyone. He was sitting on bench and the girl was sitting on top of him facing him. By the distance that she was elevating herself, I figured that he was somewhat long. That position worked for them because of the length of his penis. I could not do that position with someone, specially with a large booty and get away with it. As we men bend our bodies at the hips, our penis get shorter upfront. I measured myself standing up and sitting down. I lose about 1 3/4” sitting down. I go from a 4 ¾” standing up to 3” sitting. That’s measuring from the top of my tights (where my penis protrudes from between my tights), to the tip. In that position, the girl can’t hit bottom the same way as in other positions. By the time my penis reaches her opening, there’s only about 1 ½ -2” left to penetrate her with. So I avoid some positions to try to put as much in as possible. So keep in mind what positions you use. Some will make hime feel shorter than her is.
Some women prefer thick penises over long ones. I used to be just under 7” long by 5” circumference before my surgery (I had a surgery due to medical reasons which had some side effects, including shorting of the penis), I used to hurt some women by hitting their cervices, especially during some positions that allowed deep penetration. Now I’m 4 ¾” long with a circumference of 6”. Which is consider above average thickness. The only women that I’ve had sex after my surgery liked it even though she literally laughed at it and made some bad comments the first time she saw it. Her only complaint was that it’s too thick. So go figure! My point is that you are thinking too much about length and forgetting about thickness.
Something that I realized a little while back is the fact that you don’t need a penis to satisfy a woman. You don’t thin so? Well, how about lesbians? They don’t have one and yet, according to some women I’ve talked to, a skilled lesbian can satisfy women in ways that 99% of men can’t. Guys like us, in the small penis club, have to realize that our penis is not the main dish, it’s more like the dissert. If he has learned to use his mouth and fingers skillfully, then you may be in for a big surprise. If not, you’ll have to work with him at helping him develop those skills.
2006-09-13 04:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no it doesn't matter, I'm a virgin myself, I'm saving myself for marriage. I don't get it when I hear women having a problem with a guy's size. I think it's degrading to a person when you tell them they have to be a certain size. It doesn't make a difference, in fact when I think about it, the big ones are scary, like it would really hurt I think. Even if it did matter, I'd rather have a guy who is not that big and saved himself for marriage because I'm doing the same, than anything else. I;m an advocate for saving sex for marriage, it's more special that way and it's right by the Bible, in fact it says those who practice fornication (and persist in it knowing what the Bible says) will not enter the Kingdom of God.
2016-03-26 22:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Penis size doesn't matter to most women so long as its in the 'normal' range. If its small to the point penetration is difficult in many positions, then get lengthening surgery. It should add 1-2 inches. For the average man, going from 6-7" is hardly worth surgery. If you're going from like 2-3 or 2-4", that's a huge differance.
Do it now, then stop worry about it.
2006-09-13 16:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you really that small??? THere is actually a medical name for what you have (its called micopenis, and I'm not making this up it's true), but unfortunately like aids and flu there's no known cure. Turn the lights off and buy a truncheon :)
Seriously though contact your GP and see what they say, you can actually have a tendon snipped which holds your penis back by upto 2 inches. Some people have experienced erection problems after this, but not all. Anyway consult your doc and see what he says, otherwise do the whole truncheon thing :)
2006-09-12 06:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by United_Until_I_Die 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you have a problem then I would go and see the doctor if I was you ! ! There is no correct size as what is big and what is small. It all depends on a number of different things about that person.
There is a real medical condition that is rear but some people as males can suffer from, this is why I advise that you go seek real medical help and see if they can help you in any way.
2006-09-12 06:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a female I have dealt with someone with a small penis. In the beginning the sex was awful but I started watching flicks and reading books on how to make it better such as new positions and 4play. I taught him what to do and how to hit the walls on the inside of the vagina because that feels good and it worked. Size really doesn't matter as long as you know what to do with it and how to stroke it. When you are on top try grabbing her buttocks so that you dint have to put her legs in the air and that brings her closer to you and deeper in her. Try that and let me know if that worked for you.
2006-09-12 06:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by tnek 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You do what you gotta do to get that baby in there!! Don't let people discourage you. If you are being short changed in that area then spice up your other techniques. Oral etc. You can make up for your shortcomings elsewhere and still be just as satisfying in bed!!
2006-09-12 06:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Know It All 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you fat? That can have a whole lot to do with getting it in. Now if you are not fat and still can't break a hymen which covers the opening of a vagina then you have a micro-penis and should either go into the Priesthood or consider sex-reassignment surgery and become a girl.
2006-09-12 06:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Maybe you should change your perception :
Sex is not that important, there are things much greater.
Think about, let's say...Love ? Knowledge? Spirituality?
PS - These people, laughing of your problem are just ingrates, people so blinded by their own self that they forget what umanity means.Think it, if you were in their place, would you also make fun ? If yes...
2006-09-12 06:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by xenomorph** 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well it does matter when you wont be able to do it. Hey and if it is smaller than6 inches then its to small it matters how tall you are and how big now if your short and thats the case than you are normal penis size. HEy good luck most girls dont want to see a small and petite one,
2006-09-12 06:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by BREATH NEVER PAUSE YOUR LUNGS!! 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋