I am guy and I often crossdress on weekends. Sometimes I go to this little bar in the mall fully dressed in mini skirt, blouse, heels and hose. I am good with makeup and I think I look pretty good. But I have one problem. There are a few guys in the bar that follow me around constantly and keeps asking me out. I am straight and I have no desire to be with another man. So, girls could you give me some tips on how I get rid of a men that will not take no for an answer? The bar is for straight and gay people.
2006-09-12 06:10:15 · 27 answers · asked by Sissy Jeff 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just tell them that you only like women. If that doesn't work, tell them you're next action will be to call the cops. Get an attitude with them. Let them know that there's no chance of them ever being with you. And the whole "I have a dick" line might not work there. Some gay and straight men have their quirks.
Oh, and the 2 most common uses for bars are to get wasted or pick up someone. I'll agree with some of the other people here. If you go into a bar, especially dressed as a single, lone woman, you're going to get asked out.
2006-09-12 11:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to sound like an ***, and if I do please forgive me.
What are your expectations when you go to this bar dressed as a woman? Do you go because you want attention? Do you go because you have a circle of friends there? Do you want the world to see you as a woman or as a man? Obviously, the guys that hit on you are gay, but have you ever been hit on by a straight guy or a lesbian woman while cross dressing? How did that make you feel if so?
Sorry for so many questions, but being a straight, non-cross dressing guy I guess I don't have a life experience to draw upon for a frame of reference.
I suppose you simply tell them the truth, that you aren't interested.
Good luck.
2006-09-12 07:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A straight man dolled up like a femme tart and not wanting attention.. it's a good thing you have no desire in those men... if they couldn't even tell you're a man than they must be old and dimwitted..
You should stop wearing miniskirts... it might be broadcasting to the men that you're easy and have trampish qualities and you''ll go to bed with anyone...
If you're going to wear a miniskirt next time don't wear any panties that will keep the real men away at least... but be warn it might attract an even more unsavory crowd.. men who are into chicks with d*cks...
2006-09-12 14:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by Skyeboi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Telling the straight guys you're a guy will take care of them. As for the gay guys, hmmmmm? Tough question. Tell em you're already hooked up with someone. Or you could just get some help to quit cross dressing and then both problems won't be a problem anymore. S'all up to you.
2006-09-12 08:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by jp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's disgusting to say someone dresses like they want to be raped, not to mention ignorant and offensive to rape victims: women, men and kids. So I hope you called them out on it. However, though you may dress for this reason to impress a certain man, not all women dress to attract a partner-be they male or female. A lot dress to please themselves, to boost their own confidence and to take pride in their appearance. Everyone has the right to look at anybody, regardless of their age, sex, or clothing. You are in public, you are on view. What they don't have the right to do is harass or attempt to rape a person, everyone should feel safe.
2016-03-26 22:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. you could tell them you have no desire to be with a man.
You could simply say, I don't mean to be rude but I've already said no thank you, I'm sure your very nice but my answer is not going to change.
You could tell the bartender if the inquiry's amount to harassment, otherwise, you could just take it in stride and consider it a compliment.
2006-09-12 06:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by Terri 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about telling them no? Or not wearing something so revealing that they get that idea? There is nothing wrong with what you wear, man or woman, but clothes usually tell a story, and guys usually get the wrong one. :)
2006-09-12 17:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by socalicd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop going to the bar dressed as a woman. I mean come on that is pretty simple!
2006-09-12 06:29:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
dude your dressed like a chick..guys will hit on any thing get used to it..and dont go out dress like a whyre..and maybe you wont get treated like a whyre..mini skirt..come on guy ...after a few..I would nail your gran pa in a mini skirt...you want it..whyre...y is place of o
2006-09-12 09:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by Kingofreportedabuse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop going to a pick up joint.. Its a bar, what do you expect... Straight, gay, lesbian, trans, bi, cross dressers... Its a bar.. People go to a bar to meet people....
2006-09-12 08:04:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋