If your partner wanted to have anal sex with you, Do you think it's because he has gay tendancies?
This is a serious question..I'm not trying to be silly..
2006-09-12 05:48:36 · 54 answers · asked by Fabe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I truly believe it has nothing to do with gay tendencies. Trust me, it is just a wierd things that guys get into their head. For some of them, its like a no no area, which makes them think it would be fun because its kinda wrong. For others, they just want to try something different, and have heard that many girls can enjoy it too.
If a guy wants another guy, he wouldnt be making love to you... he just wants to explore. I dont necessarily condone or encourage anal sex... but I dont think its a sign of homosexualtiy
2006-09-12 05:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by xrionx 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Sigh! This again? If a pereson is attracted to the same sex he/she is gay.
But for some people it's a very small 'playground' out there and you can only use some of the apperatus. For others the sky is the limit! Is the anus only an eliminative organ and anybody thinking differently is gay? Well, THAT makes sense! (NOT!)
Some people still regard oral sex as a crime and a sin.
Too bad –– they're missing out, right? So what's the big deal about anal? Our bodies are a big playground and each person makes his/her own rules!
2006-09-12 05:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't mean he has gay tendancies! He just wants to do something different with you. It's tighter and it's obviously going to stimulate him more. It's going to feel damn good for him. But it might hurt you if he doesn't do it carefully and slowly at first.
If you want to try it my advice from experience is that you lie on your back with your knees lifted back onto your chest. He should be in front of you very carefully inching it in until you have relaxed properly inside. Use plenty of lube. He has got to be nice and careful or he will hurt you.
2006-09-12 05:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't ask anyone else how they feel about it. Forget what others say! What do YOU think about it. YOU are the one who has to decide on whether or not to try it. First, women that do like it won't respond for fear of some criticism and those that have tried and didn't like it or are afraid to try it will say that it's homo tendencies (latent or otherwise).
Why are you questioning your partner's sexual orientation? Have you seen some thing(s) or anything that have made you doubt or wonder about him. If that is the case, well...... that's yet another issue altogether, isn't it?
2006-09-12 05:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No unless he asked for a 3some with another guy. Hetorosexual guys like anal becasue it's tighter. Be careful...a lot of main arteries back there. No I think you have to judge for your self. If they are obcessed with the anal thing...something happened to them, but I don't think it's a gay thing. Gays do it, becasue that is the only way they can.
2006-09-12 05:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
absolutely not... Just because that is one of the only ways that two men can have sex, does not mean that it does not belong to a man and a woman as well. There is nothing wrong with anal sex. enjoy!
2006-09-12 05:59:36 · answer #6 · answered by OnE GiRL 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no anal sex with men doesnt mean they are gay. It actaully as more to do with power. It makes most men feel that they are dominating in the relationship and in the bed to have anal sex with there woman bc the are in charge with anal sex and most women dont like to tell others how much they really liked it and men can tell how well you enjoyed them so dont worry to much yet. when he starts wearing your underwear or putting on your perfume or makeup then you should worry. But for now if you arent into anal sex then just tell him you dont like it but then let him be dominate in your lovemaking in other ways. like ask him in a sexually way what can i do to please you or what ever your comfortable with
2006-09-12 05:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by starrmerlan 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is not gay but would like to try new things...perhaps you could call it a fantasy. Most men like to have anal sex, it gives them a different sensation. Just make sure he goes slow with you if you decide to try it.
2006-09-12 05:53:32 · answer #8 · answered by val h 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most likely not. Lots of guys want to try anal sex with their girlfriend, basically because it's a new experience and a tighter hole to explore.
Now if, on the other hand, he wants you to put on a strap-on and do HIM, you may be onto something...
2006-09-12 05:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by twiceborne 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LOL.. well, trying not to be silly makes it sound silly. If he wants to try it that way.. I would be a little curious. But that doesn't mean he has homosexual tendencies.. jut anal with his woman tendencies. Does he like to explore new things?? If so.. think nothing of it.
2006-09-12 05:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by Serious Mandy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋