Has had som ework done on her chest I can tell. She dresses very provacatively and no one seems to care. My office is small and more of a family type atmossphere, but I am just wondering why no one has said anything. i myself have kept myself from saying anything because it is not my place. I am not a perv by any means, but I am constantly staring and feel guilty about that... but I wouldn't if they weren't out there sayin "look at me"!! Couple questions...
1. if she puts them out there...is it okay to sneek a peek??
2. At what pointy to I tell her that she should cover up, i am not the boss, btu I don't want to get in trouble for staring...is ther some kind of pre-emptive strike i can take before I get the SH talk!!
2006-09-12 05:47:13 · 11 answers · asked by O Jam 3 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
OK number one, your a guy, I'm a guy, guys always look, don't let your eyes bug out of your head just be cool about it, hey if you didn't look she would be more upset, after all she's dressing like that for a reason, number two, no one has ever been arrested for looking at a beautiful woman at work, so sneak your peek, but just be a gentleman,,,OK heres a good rule to follow, never say anything to a woman that you can't say to your mother or your sister, then you know you can't get into any trouble, I was listening to the radio one morning and they were talking about the same thing, one girl said there's nothing wrong with alittle bit of flirting, the other girl said she wished guys would just keep there thoughts to themselves, so you just never know. If you tell a co-worker that she really has it going on, and she has a problem with that, well then she just has problems.
2006-09-12 06:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she puts'em out there then take a gander. Discreetly, of course.
At NO point should you tell her to cover up. That's between her and the management. If its a problem I'm sure she'll either get the hint, get the direct word from above or she's just immune to the gossip, the stares, the whatever. But don't put yourself in the position of being the bad guy.
2006-09-12 05:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by DR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ? is she not wearing a shirt? my god look already, if it's bothering you that much. Maybe she'll let you take a picture of them it will last longer! Just don't take it in the bathroom with ya! Or the people in your office are gonna start calling you names, like Pervy Mc -Perv Perv. Or freak who can't stop staring at so an so's boob's. Get a good mental pic in your mind and you won't have to be a drooling all over the key board.
2006-09-12 06:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by VEGAS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to the boss first. There should be some type of dress code in your work place such as business suits or dress pants. Nothing that will reveal your breast or butt. she is just looking for attention do not give her any.
2006-09-12 06:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she had it done for a reason - she wanted to attract men - Look all you want - and then look some more - Than if she says anything to you about looking - tell her to cover up and take the temptation away - she is advertising for something - maybe the attention of men that she might not have had before.
Tell her she looks great - she might let you feel one for free
2006-09-12 05:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should talk to the boss about this, or ask a female employee how she feels and if she feels the same maybe you could get her to say something, and NO don't sneak a peak you perv, thats exactly what she wants!
2006-09-12 05:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by AFwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of maximum could agree that girls make blunders, after all, we are "purely human", too. besides, female have ruled for the time of history, and are doing so precise now in different countries, some have been superb leaders, some no longer lots. yet a female is basically as in a position.
2016-11-07 04:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by garion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Well, she is being a hoe and you can't really help it, but you should try not to look.
2. Go tell your boss that it is unprofessional and distracting. He/she will take care of it.
2006-09-12 05:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by 1big teddy graham 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently she doesn't mind the "looking" If she did then she would definetly cover them up. I wouldn't worry about it. Stare if you want. If she makes a comment about you staring then tell her that she needs to cover herself!
2006-09-12 05:50:56 · answer #9 · answered by amanda725_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously you care, Keep your eyes on your work.
At what pointy? Now there's a Freudian slip if I ever saw one!
2006-09-12 05:49:38 · answer #10 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋