he spits when hes mad or doesnt get his way..im out of ideals how how to get him to stop...any advice!!
2006-09-12 05:37:35 · 17 answers · asked by red head 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
beat his a$s that is something he needs to stop doing that is rude and gross
2006-09-12 05:39:25 · answer #1 · answered by babygirla718 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son was a spitter. Like you, I finally had enough. I took him into the restroom one day, and said, I want you to spit into the toilet until you fill it up. Of coarse, he took the challenge, he spit and spit and after several minutes, he said he could not spit anymore. I told him not to give up, as much as he enjoyed spitting, I felt sure, that he could fill the toilet. He tried a while longer and then told me that it was no use, he could not fill the toilet.
Finally, I said, here's the way it is. Spitting is nasty, no one likes being spit on. Each time, you spit on anyone, or spit just to entertain yourself or annoy someone else, we will come back to the toilet and then, you will spit the toilet full. He only tested me one more time, and although he didn't spit the toilet full that time either, he began to think before he spit.
2006-09-12 05:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is this child?
Show him how it feels to be spit at. If that doesn't work then he needs to be taken to a quiet area where he can calm down. Persistence in this area is very necessary. Let him have his fit in private. If you are in a public place then leave immediately.
If its in the home environment, take him to an area he doesn't like being and make him calm down by sitting him in a place and making him stay there until he realizes that he isnt going to win, and the spitting will only make the punishment last longer. If my child spit at me or anyone else, I would have taken the child to a private area and sat her/him down and had a long talk about why that was unnacceptable behavior and then proceeded to keep them in that spot till they calmed down and stopped the spitting. If they spit at me, I would have spit back at them and said see, that isnt very nice is it. Then I would make them go to the spot every single time it happened. I would be vigilant about making sure he/she stayed in that spot till the lesson was learned. I would make him apologize for the spitting to the person he spit at or on and then when he was calm from that incident and apologized he would be allowed to get up, but not before. Give him a time limit on how long he has to stay in that spot for each incident. IF he is very young don't tell him the time limit but set it, and then maintain it. If he doesnt apologize or calm down within say 10 minutes then extend the time another five minutes till he does. If he gets up take him gently back to the spot and make him sit there till he does calm down and apologize.
Just remember to praise him too when he apologizes and let him know that that is very good behavior. IT is very important that you, as a parent, are vigilant. You, learning to be the boss of your child is just as important as him learning good behavior and its up to YOU to teach him that. YOur the teacher here, and he needs to be taught who the boss is. YOU ARE, not him. If it means spending the day dealing with this issue till he learns it, then so be it. Take back the reigns mom/dad.
Best of luck, from an old mom
J
2006-09-12 05:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by frankly2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pop him in the mouth every time he does it and trust me it's not cute, he's gonna make the mistake of spitting on someone and it's not gonna be nice. this is one of those times when you have to have tough love because that spitting is gonna really become a problem especially since he does it in anger.
2006-09-12 05:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not listening to you when you ask him to stop spitting, then he is not being respectful of others. Unless he can behave properly, he should be removed from the social setting. Take him home immediately and send him to his room.
2006-09-12 05:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way to cease the bad habit is to do the bad habit back in a worse or bigger way. That will send the message across what it feels like.
He will either cry or laugh. Chances are he will realize what he has done though, and stop.
2006-09-12 05:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that behavior will not get him what he wants and put him in a time out every time he does that and tell him to stay there and think about what he did until he is ready to say he is sorry. Watch super nanny.
2006-09-12 05:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it is funny taht you child spit tat there way of know the good ppl and bad ppl./
2006-09-12 05:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by kandiboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder what hed think if you started spitting in his face....it would be hard for me, but he may see that it sux getting it done to him.
2006-09-12 05:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smack the sh it out of him then spit in his face
2006-09-12 07:33:08 · answer #10 · answered by rudy1976 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋