When I call my boyfriend at 4 he tells me that he's getting dress to go to his friend house and that he will call me back .He call me back at 10 something and I ask him what he did he said he was playing basketball I believe him but I still have my feelings is it my I insecurity.
2006-09-12 05:34:36 · 5 answers · asked by Scooby_doo06 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you dont trust him then you should just forget him. being so insecure brings so many more issues into one's relationship than it should have
2006-09-12 06:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by shine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for signs that he is cheating, you do not belong together. Time to call it quits and maybe see if you do have some insecurity issues. try talking to a councellor to work with your self esteem and confidence. You sound young enough to give it a shot, or you will always have issues with relationships. probably not what you wanted to hear. Good luck
2006-09-12 12:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happens... happens. Insecurity will kill a relationship. Trust him until he gives you a reason not to trust him. At least he called you back at 10 and not the next day.
:)
2006-09-12 12:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by melookinpanub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't put your feelings down completely. wait and watch. and find out more. don't hurry, don't be too keen. but keep an open eye on him. good luck with love :-)
i hope it is just a bad feeling..
p.s. but yes.. if he's seeing his friend or friends a bit too often and if you can't help but wondering..have a closer look. spending nights and nights with good friends is ok, but could as well be a sign he tries to just get an excuse. do you have the numbers of those friends? don't be obvious by calling or stuff. but you never know if those numbers might be helpful one day. and why not check his mobile?? O:-) well, i did it and found amazing stuff on my boyfriends mobile.. EXCUSES, NO TIME FOR YOU, SPONTANEOUS GET AWAYS, NO TIME FOR YOU AGAIN.. might be signs. and watch his friends. they usually know more about such stuff. watch their expression innocently and see if you remark strange behaviour or hidden exchanged smiles..whatever. good luck!
2006-09-12 12:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by india18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont trust him (and you dont), the question isnt the problem.
2006-09-12 12:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋