2006-09-12 05:22:39 · 24 answers · asked by amit singh 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
wait. don't rush it. it's hard enough to be married. don't try it without the support of your parents. if you're really in love, what is a couple of years of waiting compared to the amount of time you'll be spending married for the rest of your lives.
2006-09-12 05:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not understand whether you want to live your life according to some such guidance from parents or some marriage counsellers around you.If you are serious about your love for someone and that someone is also ready and capable of reciprocating,external counselling or advice may be needed only when your love is not going to help each other's wants.For example,if anyone has a serious decease which can be fatal,if married.
2006-09-12 07:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by ramraj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a precious gift of god. if u r in love u should marry each other. if parents are not ready convince them. but if still they r not ready and if u can live without them then go and get married but if u love ur parents also and u want to live with them then u have to sacrifice ur love. and anyhow god is seeing everything he will not put u in any sort of pain he will show u the right way. only u have to do is keep faith in him.
2006-09-12 07:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by ruby k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you earn by yourself?
Can you support a family?
Can you lead a decent life with your life partner with what you earn?
Do you know the diff b/w love, infctuation, and pleasure wantage?
CAN YOU ASSURE THAT YOUR LOVER WILL STAY FOR A LIFETIME EVEN IN HARD TIMES, WITH YOU?
Do you have enough maturity to face outside world?
I am sure that atleast one is negative for you and if i am correct, go school and see if she wil wait for you.
I know cases where a girl went to extent of engagement during her school days(after confronting parents on both sides) and once in job chose someone else.
This part of your life is vital. Score high in marks and character and come out with flying colours. All the best
2006-09-12 10:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by PP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please pardon Sgt. Squids stupid reply, he has no learnin his self.
I assume you are Indian, correct me if Im wrong, but isnt the marriage custom there is that the parents find your mate? That would be hard for me, since my choice of mate I know would not be the same as my parents since I am American, but I would do what my heart tells me to do. Parents have a way of doing what they feel is right for the children and if you are of age and are in love I think you should go on and marry. Just my opinion.
2006-09-12 05:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by Scarlett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a god gift to all in this world this is not such a thing that can be found by everyone . but it is also fact that our parents are also important part of our life. they always think good for us so my suggestion to you is that you try to know why your parents are not agree with your decision if they were mis understood any thing then you should clear that. after that you tell him open heartly what you want to do and with nothing insecurely.i think my advice may help you in your problem . i always help the peoples who love each other. ok bye see u next time.
your friend
somya
2006-09-13 04:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by somya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean your parents are not emotionally ready or financially ready? If emotionally -- that's your life and you marry when you and your partner want to -- not when it suits other people. If you're waiting for them to pay for your wedding, well you'll either have to wait (if) you want the wedding paid for, have a lower cost wedding, or your and fiance pay for the wedding yourself. It takes more then love to remain married -- so think before you leap.
2006-09-12 05:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even i believe tht u r an Indian n i know tht parents decision plays a major role in ur marriage, so convince them if u r old enough n financially n mentally ready for it. good luck.
2006-09-12 06:12:34 · answer #8 · answered by naturelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the acid test for all lovers:
Check honestly whether your love gives you the strength to surpass all other feelings..
If so, your LOVE IS GREAT Go Ahead. None Can Stop YOU.
2006-09-15 23:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by bobby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love, have college education, or a great career, are older than 21, then it doesn't matter what your parents say.
2006-09-12 05:29:02 · answer #10 · answered by curly98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋