I just need to vent and I want a little support. The more questions I read, the more dumb-struck and absolutely annoyed I become... All these little girls who don't understand sex, having sex, and then wondering "could they be pregnant" If you don't understand how you get pregnant, You SHOULD NOT be having sex.... This place should be for those that ACTUALLY need real advise, not a chastity belt.... Who agrees with me?
2006-09-12 05:00:31 · 20 answers · asked by rachael 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Don't get me wrong, for first time moms and anyone needing to know what to expect, I say ask away and I will be more than happy to answer in the best of my ability. The ones that bother me are these little girls (obviously young) that are asking "my boyfriend fingered me, can i get pregnant" or "can i get pregnant if we don't use a condom but he pulls out" or "my period just ended how do i know if i'm pregnant?" THESE little girls, who, understand nothing, whose parents aren't teaching them ANYTHING about sex, reproduction. These girls who don't have enough self respect to say no and the ones that are 15 and WANT to "accidentally" get pregnant... this is why society is sinking. no one parents and no one understands HOW they BECAME a parent. (generalization) there.... now who agrees, disagrees?
2006-09-13 02:32:47 · update #1
Agreed. If you aren't old enough to figure out when and how pregnancy occurs, then you shouldn't be having sex. And d@mmit, hasn't ANYONE on Y!Answers ever heard of using a condom??? Little girls, if your boy doesn't have, or refuses to wear, a condom, THEN DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM!!!!
2006-09-12 05:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya I totally agree. We can preach to kids but really honestly as much as we preach they will end up having sex anyways. So its a waste of breath. They just need to learn bc, condoms, or some other methods if they choose sex. They shouldnt be asking if they are pregnant. They should go buy a darn PREGNANCY TEST NOT YAHOO ANSWERS!!! Ok now I am upset and totally agree with the person who asked that needed to vent.
2006-09-12 12:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by swept away in hopes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a little bit harsh.
People have always had sex without understanding the consequences or risks. It takes more bravery to admit that they don't know than to pretend that they do.
Hopefully Yahoo answers can do its bit to dispand some of the more common myths.
People of all ages need to be able to ask questions without judgement about family planning and reproductive health and relationships.
2006-09-12 12:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by Bebe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amen. It's really sad, isn't it? And it probably doesn't help that teen pregnancy isn't the shameful thing that it once was. Girls think it's okay, cute even, to have a baby. Then they realize it's work and stop parenting once that cute little baby turns into a challenging toddler!! Read a book, girls. Get a hobby, play a sport, feed your brain, be a kid!! If a girl isn't emotionally strong enough to tell a boy she isn't ready for sex, then she shouldn't be dating. There is nothing wrong with saying no to sex if you aren't ready and, if you are, then protect yourself!! That boy isn't going to be there to help you raise that baby.
2006-09-12 12:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree 100%. I shouldnt have to pay for their public education that doesnt teach them the most basic sex fact:
SEX IS FOR MAKING BABIES.
If I see one more "my boyfriend and i had sex, but he pulled out, can i be pregnant" or "i had sex right after my period, can i be pregnant?" question iam going to freak out.
I asked a question on here once, just to see the reaction "sex is for making babies, true or false" most people said it was for fun AND babies, or for social interaction, while only about three people said its for making babies.
Theres a basic educational principal lost on this generation.
The asker stated girls, not women trying to concieve, thats different. Those are real questions of interest, not panicked reactions to guilt for the previous nights affairs.
2006-09-12 12:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I just feel like where are their parents its really not their fault because wheres mom and dad when they are having sex and spending time on the computer to post these questions.Of course they are asking stupid questions because apparently they can't ask their parents and they haven't talked to anyone and they are completly lost in the world because they don't have anyone else to turn to.I am like you I get tired of seeing it but it makes me angry at the parents not the children.
2006-09-12 13:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by samwise25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you completely.. Its scary to think that these young girls are actually going to be mothers.. granted I am 19 and about to have my first most people think thats kinda young but I am not an idiot and I definately know how i got pregnant..
2006-09-12 12:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by ashez 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do... It makes them look very juvenile and a huge joke! Very entertaining sometimes. To think, they have NO clue about pregnancy and symptoms but are active. It makes you wonder if they should even pro-create. We can't have a mass amount of idiots in the world. Artificial intelligence is no match for natural stupidity!!!!
2006-09-12 12:03:37 · answer #8 · answered by Pimp E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever think that these women may just be excited about trying to have a baby? Or maybe they just want a question answered and dont have time to go to the doctor? Or maybe they just want to say it out loud.. just like you are doing now???
Maybe we (the community) are tired of people bitching and using this as a rant forum and not a place for questions. Wrap youre mind around that!
2006-09-12 12:04:19 · answer #9 · answered by Blondie 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Babies having babies. That's society today. What do you expect with the lackluster education received in public schools and parents not responsible enough to teach?
2006-09-12 12:02:01 · answer #10 · answered by sovereign_carrie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋