What makes a man so mad when nobody did anything to make him that way?
2006-09-12 04:46:38 · 14 answers · asked by silverdollarsmile 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I read your other post, so I know how bad your life is at the moment. Hopefully, you'll get out of there soon!
I have known a lot of men (and women) who had very mean tempers, and sometimes it's extremely hard to understand. It doesn't matter. If he's mean to you, leave him and go somewhere else. Sometimes you have to hide for a while, and that's okay, too. Just get away.
2006-09-12 05:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah E 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women can be the same you know! Its not just men! But i'm sure most people get mad sometimes! The difference is being able to not take it out on other people!
On a more scientific level, its always been that way. There is something in a mans brain (not sure what) that controls anger but supposedly the more developed you are the better able you are to control it!
2006-09-12 11:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by johnapdavies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One reason: Because women let them get away with it. If a man acts out, and a women just acts out with him and there is no consequences for his behavior, he quickly learns that if he acts like this it is only a matter of time before he gets his way.
Second reason: If he is not getting his sexual pleasures fulfilled then he is going to act out. Remember that is how most (not all) men show their love to their mates is sex. They also have sex with anything that is still breathing. So go figure... LOL
Third reason: Most anger is caused by self hatred. It usually appears in all aspects of their lives. If they have an obsessive compulsive personality, the anger will begin to get volatile as time goes on.
Maybe you ought to consider moving on with yourlife without him in it?
Good luck and God Bless
2006-09-12 11:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok i gotta go with what some people already said....it is who they are...and most likely due to their up bringing....it is a matter of their behaviour that has to change. and it happens with women....unless they are born naturally like that.
but professionaly...it is knowledge that men are mean...come from bad homes are had an aggressive parent. women can actually naturally be chemically imbalanced and just get mad from nothing. but both can be like that as well...even women can be mean from a lousy upbringing...basically....the person has to change
2006-09-12 12:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by Chief 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people cannot control their anger very well. It could be due to their upbringing (i.e. if they grew up around violence...). If you're taught to be that way, at an early age, it stays with you. He may need counseling or participate in anger management sessions, to get a grasp on it.
2006-09-12 11:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by Engage Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his nature, the way he grew up. there are some childhood traumas that can't and won't be resolved, that condition the way he acts. The difficult resides in the fact that most men don't verbalize their feelings
2006-09-12 11:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys are not mad just miss understood, stress can make us grouchy, and sometimes we forget to leave the problems at work, but no all of us are the same.
2006-09-12 11:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by pay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some are just born that way depending on how they grew up.
2006-09-12 11:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by preciousmoments1962 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just life or work I guess. Low self esteem can cause this. Good luck.
2006-09-12 11:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
insecure,little boys,can't afford adult toys. choose to hit,and beat and maim. though big in body,inside the same.
2006-09-12 11:49:32 · answer #10 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋