If you started going out with some guy because you liked him, were not afraid of the idea, or simply because you felt lonely, bored or horny, and after a while he offered to pay you for some sexual service, what would you do? It might be a test, or just his honest expression of his intentions. Of course, the answer would depend on your mood and many other things. For example, you might already be willing to do it but have no intention of seeing the guy again, in this case you could make a small profit too. Or you would want to do it, but not in exchange for anything, lest being considered a whore. Or again, you might be starting to really like the guy and his proposal would put you off, but you'd like to just ignore it and try to keep talking and going out with him or something. Knowing yourself, what's the probability of you accepting?
2006-09-12 04:22:55 · 18 answers · asked by jarynth 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
kealey - That would also make you a whore.
BTW I'm a guy.
2006-09-12 04:32:13 · update #1
Smitty - I agree with wizard8100's answer. Why is taking money for sex illegal, whereas accepting dinner or a ring is not? What if he pays you to stay in a relationship with him, and sex is just a secondary activity which accompanies dating? Don't girls like getting presents? I used to receive money as a present when I was a kid, should I report my granny for attempted child molestation?
2006-09-12 04:38:31 · update #2
spareo1 - Having sex without accepting the money says you're for free then.
2006-09-12 04:40:42 · update #3
I am not a girl, but from my point of view, all women have sex for money. I may be in the form of dinner, a movie, a marriage, a divorce settlement, or cash, but all sex is a financial drain on a man.
I have never heard of a couple going out, where she pays for everything, drives her car, and then has sex with her boyfriend, without the subject of marriage, children, or a future come up. I know too many women who use sex as a weapon in a relationship, and the ones that don't usually are not that interested anyway.
While money may offend, sex always occurs at a financial loss to a man. Sooner or later.
2006-09-12 04:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by wizard8100@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well to my advise to ur situation depends how u take it as.... see if u think u love him u can make him undersdtand the beauty of love over physical things but if u think its just infatuation and u also have enough money to spend off i think u can easily tell tht guy that u really liked him but this offer has turned u off so better find someone else who is in need and if u think u dnt mind earning a profit with lil bit of love sharing or bed sharing as u take it u can go ahead and say goodbye as soon as both of u get over with ur job or aim for which u got into this relationship
2006-09-12 04:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd slap him and never talk to him again regardless of whether I wanted to have sex with him or not. If you take money for sex, by definition that makes you a whore. If your that horny, go to a bar pick up a man, supply him with a condom then screw to your little hearts content. Cheers!
2006-09-12 04:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by kealey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What matters in a relationship is mental rapport. Accepting $ says you have a price. Having sex is common but having a meaningful, compatible connection is superb.
2006-09-12 04:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by spareo1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if he just wants to use you as a whore. dump his sleezy butt and find someone that really cares about you.
although if you do want to do something like this you could become pretty prosperous when he tells all his friends about it.
think of how you want every one to look at you when the word spreads that you do sexual favors for someone for money.
2006-09-12 04:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Slap him! Even if you were going to do it willing, clearly you can see how he views you. He has no respect for you.
Don't take the money, girl, and even if you're horny, find someone else.
2006-09-12 04:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by it's me! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell the guy to get lost and find someone more worthwhile.
You shouldn't compromise your values and take money for sexual acts, its illegal.
2006-09-12 04:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by Smitty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends upon in my mood.....if i feel horny i will have sex to him but i will not accept the money,,and if im in the bad mood ill just slap him and never see or talk to him again....
2006-09-12 06:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would accept the offer, get him naked, play kinky and tie him up, take photos of him, and take his clothes and his money with me as I walk out with him helpless and unsatisfied. I'd probably feel bad about it later and return his photos, money, and clothes to him via his best guy friends.
2006-09-12 04:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not that despirite that I need that kind of influence in my life. I'd thank him and tell him that I don't believe in premarital sex. I'd walk way and pray for him.
2006-09-12 04:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by Lizzard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋