My parents got divorced 8 years ago and i want them to get with each other is there anything I can do?
2006-09-12 04:04:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am sorry your parents got divorced. I know it is a hard thing and I know my son wants his father and I back together too.
If that is something that is going to happen it will happen in its own time and in its own way.
Tricking people will not make things better, only worse.
Say some prayers and you never know, maybe someday they will get back together but for now you need to let them be apart and deal with the things they need to deal with.
2006-09-12 04:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not a movie star playing any role here and life is real not fantisy.
By now after 8 years I am very sure your parents have moved on with their lives weather or not you know it! Trust me they have, they are human and have growen up needs just like everyone else that someday you'll know about and understand...
For you to do things in the manner you are talking about would be interfering and hurtful, also you should by now be used to the way things are, you should be happy no matter if they are together or not, they are alive and well, be greatful for that! If they were to get back together it may be a very bad thing and you could be very sorry! (You really think you could be the reason they could get back together? They made you and united their own DNA to make you and that wasn't enough to keep them together so if it didn't work out when you were younger why would it work out when you are older!) I'm not saying you had anything to do with the break up -I'm sure that you did not! I'm just saying lets try not to make the impossible the possible you're just setting yourself up to fall. There are reasons that you do not know as to why they are no longer together and you should leave well enough alone!
No bodies says you can't dream though.... So dream on little dreamer, dream on....
2006-09-12 11:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie your parents are not together for a reason! Think about it! I know it's hard to deal with I've been their before a long time ago and then I had to grow up a little and figure out what the big picture was after all the trouble I had cause and made my mothers life a living hell and I now know it was for the better. Our parents need to be happy as well. Now that I am a parent of 3, I know what my kids had to go through. Please don't play tricks they are having a hard time as it is ok sweetie, it will be ok!
2006-09-12 11:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling It isn't up to you to try to get your parents back together, planning tricks for them to meet up can cause serious problem, one of them may not want to see the other. They got a divorce for a reason and they have been divorced for 8 years. I think by now they don't want to get back together so you have to accept the fact that your mother and father isn't together but continue to hold that bond towards your mother and father. Continue to love them both. They divorce because of something that went on in their marriage and if they wanted to be together again, they would have worked things out so both of them probably are happy with were they are right now so don't cause any problems between them. Forget about planning tricks because your tricks may turn on you and they will be disappointed in what you have planned. If they want to work their marriage out again after 8 years believe me one of them willl step up.
2006-09-12 11:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When parents split, it is often for a reason. Sometimes talking it out will work, but sometimes it will not if one party is not interested in reconciling with the other parent. Ideally, it would seem as easy as Disney's Parent Trap makes it seem with jokes and pranks bringing both parents back together. I know it is natural for you want your parents to be happy. However, it is an idea to talk to both parents separately to see what broke up the relationship to begin with before beginning this adventure on trying to make them reconciling.
2006-09-12 11:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by dawncs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you better ask them first if they still want to be together (after almost 8 years)
I see that you have good intentions, and no one can blame you for that. But i guess it is better if you would know how they feel or think about your 'wish' in getting them back together again.
It's up to them since they are the one who will together as 'husband and wife' and it is about their relationship with each other.
2006-09-12 11:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by elika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awe nice thought, but it probably won't help. They got divorced for a reason
2006-09-12 11:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by Not Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you watch too much disney channel.
2006-09-12 11:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋