Sometimes we find ourselves in the bathroom together; but she will not pee in front of me. Why not? What's the big deal? What is wrong with me watching her pee?? Do any of you understand or have an explanation??
2006-09-12 03:51:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sometimes when we women pee, a little air comes out of us from below and the hollowness of the toilet bowl makes it sound like a broken whistle. It's a little embarrassing. So be nice and let her have the potty all to herself when nature's calling.
2006-09-12 03:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by vitamin D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman and how long you've been married.
But I think most women who wont pee in front of their husbands have issues about being seen as more human and less attractive. This is sad because if you're partner doesn't love you as much if you pee then you obviously shouldn't have married him, so these women have either married superficial men or have issues themselves.
I think you should try and get her to relax more with you, considering you are her husband. The ability to be completely natural, including see each other in unglamourous situations and even peeing, is half of what intimacy is about.
2006-09-12 11:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by sugga_babe_79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure. Some people are strange and private that way. My husband not only won't pee in front of me...he runs the water and always shuts the door....very weird. I would pee in front of anyone I'm close to. It doesn't bother me....but I can be an extrovert like that sometimes.
Maybe she is a bit shy about the way her stomach looks when she sits down? I know I don't like the way my stomach rumples a bit when I sit????
2006-09-12 10:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I understand. Believe me it's nothing personal, against you I mean. It's just very personal for her, and it will not be an issue for her sooner or later. It's just another type of intimacy she has to get comfortable with. But I'm telling you right now, if your ever expecting to share a BM time, forget it, it's not going to happen! LOL. Not ever! Women prefer to pass gas in private also, that is if we even admit that we do.
2006-09-12 10:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by Desi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space. sometimes it's the only privacy we get, be honorable towards your wife wanting to pee, in private.
my explanation is to pee as woman we have to be totally relaxed. when we have an audience it is difficult.
2006-09-12 13:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry no matter how long we have been together we do not go to the bathroom together it might change after kids but that's a private place for us to go. We don't want to watch you either. Why should we??/
2006-09-12 11:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the same reason why women wont fort in front of a man even saying this to a man is kinda embarresing or burp its because we want to continue to be sexy to our men and polite and in the back of our minds we have always been taught to be lady like if we go around forting burping and peeing I mean how sexy and lady like can that be lol
2006-09-12 10:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her have something that's completely private ... obviously she doesn't want to share her bodily functions with you. Plenty of people find it a bit disgusting, and she may not want to destroy that "magic" that she has with you. She wants you to see her as beautiful and sexy... not as a typical person hunched over the porcelain pot, relieving herself. Don't be offended by her actions. Just let her pee in peace!
2006-09-12 10:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by bethiswriting 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if someone is in the bathroom with me i cant pee, it is just a thing that some women have i guess!
2006-09-12 10:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by bdmrplemons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We still like our privacy, I've been married a long long time and my husband and myself will not let each other in the bathroom if we are in there doing our thing..Why I really don't know except some things are still private..And that's one of them..
2006-09-12 10:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by Just Dreamin' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋