My older sis and I like the same man, but we both have boyfriends. The man claims to like me but my sis is trying to flirt with him in order for him to like her. I really like the guy and I even tried to pick up fight with my boyfriend for him to break up with me. But nothing works. I don't want to be the one breaking up with him and have the blame for that.
2006-09-12 03:43:55 · 24 answers · asked by faiolag10 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thinking the way you do, you're in no position to have a compromised relationship whatsoever. I suggest you stop looking for serious partners until you start taking responsibilities for what you do and what you say. grow up
2006-09-12 03:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to just come clean with your boyfriend, it is better to just be honest. Yes he may be hurt but it is better to just end the relationship than to keep stringing him along and him find out some other way. Just break it off. As for the other guy.... are you sure that getting into another relationship so fast is a good idea??? What if someone else comes along that you like better? Then you are in the same boat that you are in right now. I don't know how old you are but maybe you should just stay single, you can still have fun without hurting anyone.
2006-09-12 03:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by autbrat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no man is worth fighting ur sis for trust me from experience. you should both make a pact to leave this guy alone. U should however break up w/ ur boyfriend regardless. Don't just drag him along till u find something better....same goes for ur sis. Maybe if u r both single u can out and party together and find that neither of u have to have this GREAT man afterall!!Blood is alot thicker than water!!
2006-09-12 04:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by goosey38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but this will end pretty badly. If you don't love your current boyfriend, break it off. He will respect you for being able to say that you don't feel the same and don't want to lead him on (if he doesn't then you probably don't want him anyways and his "blaming" you honestly won't matter any). Tell him the truth. It will hurt, but it's better than lying to him and then him finding out on his own the truth. If you do still have feelings for your boyfriend, then... why are you flirting with another man? You need to make a choice as to who you want more and then do what you need to do to hold onto who you want (should they want to be with you). But again, BE HONEST.
2006-09-12 03:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Any man who is going to let your sister flirt with him and not say "Hey, I like your sister, sorry" is not worth your time.
2) You should never let a man come between your and your family, a blood bond is stronger than any relationship.
3) If you want to break up with your boyfirend don't play games with him to make it happen. Just say "Hey, I don't have the same feelings for you I used to and I think it's time we see other people"
2006-09-12 03:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want to play childish games instead? Just be honest with your boyfriend and break up with him. He deserves someone that will treat him with respect and child like behaviors.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-12 03:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Y do you even bother chasing this guy. HES just a guy. I mean what once u hook up with this one and u c another . Are you going to go chase that one aswell? This whole boyfriend story will repeat over and over and over! Don't start dating Untill u are mature enough to know the diffrence between Love and A crush!
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2006-09-12 04:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you going to break up w/ someone who probably cares for you to go w/ someone that will most likely will use you and leave you for someone else. remember he is going to look at you like "if she is flirting w/ me and has a man and is planning to break up w/ him to be w/ me, What makes me so sure of her that she is not going to do the same to me. He will most likely wont take you serious. I would think about it before you make the worst mistake in you life!!!!!
2006-09-12 03:57:21 · answer #8 · answered by M M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Kill your sister. She's obviously a c-u-n-t.
2. Hack her up with a knife in an interesting pattern.
3. Show your sister's mutilated body to this guy you are ***** over.
4. He will probably totally dig you for doing something so cool, but just in case he's a wuss and gets scared, tell him if he doesn't go out with you, you'll chop him up too.
5. Remember to use a condom.
2006-09-12 03:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by bob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even consider being with someone your sister wanted. Don't you know there are tons of men out there in the world but there is only one person who could fill your sister's shoes and thats her. Go find someone else to flirt with and let her have him. Like I said , he can always be replaced but she can't. Good Luck
2006-09-12 03:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by flutterby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't break up with your boyfriend. Just tell him you don't want an exclusive relationship. This leaves the door open in case you find out you should have let your sister have the dude.
2006-09-12 03:48:21 · answer #11 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋