I love having sex with my fiance' and I could never picture myself with anyone other then him;however, I have a hard time lubricating, everything feels great and I get that crazy weak in the kneese feeling when we have sex but for some reason I have a hard time lubricating what can be the reasoning for this? Im absolutly attracted to him in everyway imaginable but my body wont cooperate and its fustrating could it be a medical problem?
2006-09-12 03:43:02 · 22 answers · asked by landscaperschick73 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Im 33 could it possibly be hormaonal changes that are affecting me
2006-09-12 03:49:01 · update #1
If you are totally relaxed and you still are kind of dry, then you might want to try using some KY brand lube. Some women just don't get wet down there. If you are under 21, then it's possible that your body will change soon and may not have a dryness problem anymore. Just use lube for now, and be patient until your change comes.
2006-09-12 04:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by CTargrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be hormonal, or just the way your body is. Every woman is different. Have you been an any form of birth control? Low estrogen could be the culprit. Low estrogen thins out the lining of your vagina and can cause vaginal dryness. Switching to birth control with a higher amount of estrogen, or taking some extra estrogen for awhile, can solve the problem. You can also use KY lubricant. You can also get them in an applicator tube - looks sort of like a tampon. You put it inside your vagina, and it says in there and lubricates you for days.
2006-09-12 03:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to relax a little more. Try spending a little more time petting around. Heavy petting!
While you may enjoy sex with him, let's face it, after all that rubbing the natural lube just don't stay in one place and it's hard for the body to replace it as fast as it can be moved around while playing with your honey.
Try the KY jelly like others have suggested, but shoot for the "warming massage" stuff. And a little heat to the situation! Enjoy!
Hope this helped.
2006-09-12 03:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a subconcious stress issue. this is very common. The glands that produce lubricant are very attuned to your mind and emotions. It could be a problem your subconcious is debating that you don't even know about. This is why KY has become so popular over the past few years. The trend of humankind falling into an ever-growing complicated world, emotionally, has led their brand of lube to be very popular. I would suggest getting some, and/or meditation.
2006-09-12 03:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is not uncommon. I sometimes just lick my fingers, wipe them on myself right before he enters me, then once he is in there, it helps itself.
There are many products on the market for this, and also, a good OB/GYN or Midwife can help answer the questions about your sexual health. I wish i could help there, but everyone is different.
I like ASTRO GLIDE, but only a very small amount. Otherwise it's like being on a Slip & Slide!! A tiny bit around the head of his penis, or on your outside lips.
Try the licking thing first. You might have already.
good Luck. I am sure that your man is happy just knowing that you are so turned on to him!!
2006-09-12 03:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by Fitchurg Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your age could be a factor, Or you could be stressed. Hormones can play a role too. Talk to your Dr. This happens to more women more often than many of us like to admit. Many responses I see say KY There is another product called Astroglide.
2006-09-12 03:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by sieste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a medical issue, but many women have it, and it is nothing to worry about as it is easy to fix. You need to buy some lubricant (heck, they now sell it at Wal-Mart!) such as K-Y, and you will be fine. Just relax and don't stress.
2006-09-12 03:46:59 · answer #7 · answered by Designchc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you on birth control? If you are... there's your culprit! I had the same experience and found out that there's another pill you can take (I think estrogen) that's suppost to help but the easiest thing to do is go buy some KY, the warming jel is nice, and it can add some fun too.
2006-09-12 03:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by starsmoak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, congrats on your engagement. : )
Are you taking birth control pills, wear the patch, or get depo shots?? I know that with me, I have no problem with sex other than luberication while i'm on any kind of hormonal medication like the pill.
Good luck!!
2006-09-12 04:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by bluegrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need more "warming" up, more foreplay to get you in a more relaxed mood. There are also gels like (KY) at the store that will help out with this kind of thing.....
2006-09-12 03:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by Trish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋