2006-09-12 03:37:13 · 23 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Also, another question. Have any of you ladies ever had a rape fantasy? My wife wants me to chase her around the house and be rough and penetrate her very physically. Is this weird??
2006-09-12 03:39:22 · update #1
We are both nymphos & multiple orgasmic so on average at least 3-12 times a day. (so at least 30 times a week).
Amazing we both work full time jobs. We go to work happy though..
2006-09-13 22:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 times a week is good for me.
A rape fantasy is a sexual fantasy about participating in a rape, a fictional story about a rape, or an acted-out scene of pretend rape between consenting adults. Some see rape fantasies as disturbing, unhealthy or even a predictive indicator of rape. Others argue that rape fantasies can be normal, healthy and uncorrelated with a predilection towards sexual violence.
Rape fantasy can occur in both the male and female sexual fantasy realm, and they range from unwilling seduction to violent, forceful sex. One can imagine one is the rapist, or that one is being raped. It is estimated that 24% of men and 36% of women have had a rape fantasy, and 10% of women report this is their favorite type of fantasy Roleplay
One form of sexual roleplaying is the rape fantasy, also called "ravishment". Ravishment has become the more popular term in BDSM circles, as it makes a distinction between consensual roleplay and nonconsensual assault.
Since the illusion of non-consensuality is important to the fantasy, one or more safewords are typically employed. This way, a participant can protest without stopping the scene, unless the safeword is used. Often a variation on the "stop-light" system is used, with different colors designating different messages: "red" to stop everything, "yellow" to slow down or take it easy, and so forth. For scenes where there is an element of surprise, the top or "ravisher" may use a "startword" or other identifying signal.
In healthy ravishment scenes, all participants carefully negotiate what will transpire beforehand. Limits are respected and made very clear, to maintain safety and consensuality. Such negotiation would also include discussion of emotional issues for both partners, especially if there has been a prior history of actual sexual abuse or assault.
2006-09-12 11:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have sex 5 to 7 times a week and fantasies are what keeps the relationship alive. Different people have different fantasies your wife likes to be raped there's nothing wrong with that.
2006-09-12 10:52:36 · answer #3 · answered by Patty A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About twice a week. As for the rape fantasy thing I've heard that it's common for women to have a fantasy like that.
2006-09-12 10:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As many times as possible!! Mostly 4-6 times. As for the rape fantasy... more women than you think have it.
2006-09-12 11:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by YHop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3-4 times a week. I don't think it is odd that your wife has a rape fantasy. Aggresiveness is a GOOD thing.
2006-09-12 10:41:31 · answer #6 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
24-6
2006-09-12 10:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 0r 3 times a month
2006-09-12 10:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by Libra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get it once a week if I am lucky. I would prefer at least 3 more like 5 times a week.
2006-09-12 10:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 times per week
2006-09-12 11:13:44 · answer #10 · answered by supreme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋