What marks the limit between the sexual and non-sexual activities in which two people can engage? There are currently a lot of interpretations. For example, "sexual molestation" applies to a much broader class of activities than just intercourse, even to psychological pressure. In your opinion, dipping *what* in *where* is "sex"? Are oral sex, body kissing, touching, frottage, making out (...) really "sex"? Do you define "losing your virginity" as "having intercourse for the first time", or "down-there contact with someone else for the first time", or even just "doing any sex-related activity with someone else for the first time"? Would you be disappointed if your partner - a self-proclaimed virgin - admits to having had all sorts of non-penetrative sexual experience before? What would your point of view as a concerned mother of a boy/a girl be? How has your point of view changed over the years? What do you perceive to be the established point of view around you? What about cyber sex?
2006-09-12 03:33:51 · 15 answers · asked by jarynth 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
...or phone sex, and other virtual forms?
I'm interested in hearing the different perspectives of guys and girls, straight, gay and bi... so please state what you are..or something. Taking nothing for granted, I want to encourage you not to dwell on bestiality or self-sex.
2006-09-12 03:34:40 · update #1
s j - I heard the word on Jerry Springer.
SusieDarling - No kid who has ever looked at porn or fancied sex with a fictional character is emotionally virgin then. And that's about 99.99999999% of us.
shadowgirl - All natural-born gays are virgins then.
2006-09-12 04:13:56 · update #2
sex is sex whenever it is sex in your mind.
2006-09-12 03:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by Chri R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically any involvement with the female/male sexual organs is considered sex whether or not penetration is involved. Also, you can get sexually transmitted diseases without penetration. I would be really upset if my boyfriend or girlfriend engaged with sexual activites with other people as that is still intimacy that is off limits without serious commitment. I would think very little of their basic character/morality - shows their upbringing to be sure. Your self-proclaimed virgin is not a sexually emotional virgin and that is a shame. The penetration is only the end of the sexual act so she is in one since not a virgin any longer. The basic rules from the beginning of time regarding sex have not changed even though people would like you to think they have.
2006-09-12 03:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by SusieDarling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm. Hetero girl. I believe that only intercourse is sex. Phone and cyber are just words. You are a virgin until intercourse. I personally want an experienced virgin if I marry. lol you know everything except intercourse. Making out is CERTAINLY not sex. That's absolutly ridiculous. And *if* I have kids, then they can do anything up to intercourse. Don't ask don't tell plicy, as well as if I don't see or hear it then it didn't happen.
2006-09-12 03:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The official definition of Sex is
Penile-vaginal intercourse. So, technically as long as this condition isn't fulfilled, it isn't sex really. It can at best, be called love-making.
2006-09-12 03:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by quilm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is a make pretend thing for those who have something to prove.
some even go as far to marry their appendages just in case they fear living in sin.
2006-09-12 03:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone who gets sexual satisfaction from wet grass.
2006-09-12 03:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by Alan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it yet, it is something you do when all the football games have ended for the day.
2006-09-12 03:41:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is when a man sticks his erect penis into a woman's vagina. Simple as 1...2...3...
2006-09-12 03:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask Bill Clinton.
2006-09-12 03:40:06 · answer #9 · answered by ANDREW L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im sorry, u what?
there are at least 10 different questions here i doubt anyone will answer them!!!
2006-09-12 03:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude without knowing about sex how did you enter this catagory
2006-09-12 03:36:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋