Should i forgive him...cause he says he was to drunk to remember and if he did he had to be stupid bcause we have a kid together and he did it with my best friend who would tell me...and i would be gone. So in a way i think he dont remember but i dont know what to do..what do you guys think?
2006-09-12 03:33:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
His drunkenness is NO EXCUSE>He made a choice. Why would anyone CHOOSE to drink until they are out of control. If you stay with him, this will happen again.
2006-09-12 03:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God everyone is being so hard on him. **** happens. Now a days, there aren't any guys out here that dont cheat. Its either you know about it or you never will know about it. You have a child with this man, if you leave and move on it could happen again with the next guy. NO one is perfect. At least he told you. I think that it was a honest mistake. People will tell you to leave him but in my opinion, its not worth leaving him. He could have done something worst than that to be honest. I say work it out! Keep your head up!
2006-09-12 10:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by aashia101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he nailed your best friend shows absolutley no class or respect for you. And the being drunk excuse is bullshit. I've been drunk hundreds of time and always knew what I was doing. It's called being horny. It's a tough call for you because you have a child and that child needs a father. At least he had the balls to tell you. But he will problably do it again.
2006-09-12 10:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
HE was drunk, thats what he is saying!! it could be true also and could be fake also.. u never know!! so if u can just try and ask the girl if u know her by any means !!! If she tells u he messed with her then kick some *** or talk to him abt his drinking habit.. coz everytime he will get drunk and will sleep with another girl.. cant b so foolish!! so decide on ur own what u need to do...
good luck to u
Deeps
2006-09-12 11:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by Deeps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't control himself then he needs to go. Once a cheat always a cheat. Being drunk is not an excuse for cheating!!!
Girl, you deserve better!
2006-09-12 11:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by lovliest1976 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if he drinks so much he can`t remember,throw his butt out,does eh relize to drunk to remember could give you aides or stds nice boyfriend,if he was mine he`d be on the curb,sorry buti don`t take crap
2006-09-12 10:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being drunk is no excuse,he cheated,he's out of here.
2006-09-12 10:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him once a cheater always a cheater
2006-09-12 10:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by sobek31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drinking is a horrible excuse. Is this what will happen everytime he drinks?
2006-09-12 10:42:27 · answer #9 · answered by hoddin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, once he does it and you forgive him and he sees that he will do it again, i had that happen to me before at first they will do good when you let your guard down it will happen again, sorry to hear that.
2006-09-12 11:24:06 · answer #10 · answered by crpcountry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋