would u still have thoughts of it and still be alittle untrustworthy
2006-09-12 03:28:01 · 25 answers · asked by blueeyes3313 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My boyfriend too had cheated on me about 3 years ago. Oh trust me sister, it still goes through my head. I don't think it will ever go away .... he has done some things to gain his trust back and has become a better person towards our relationship. But, I still won't let my guard down. Be safe, be strong and always remember that if you are having doubts ... don't let them control your life. Love isn't supposed to hurt.
Good luck to you !
2006-09-12 03:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by spartexcites 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time will not erase the feeling you had the day you found out she hate cheated on you. Those memories of that day will love with you til you die. However, we all live with bad memories everyday. We all have memories of death and destruction and even betrayal.
I am sure as you look back on this memory it not as powerful of one as it was the day after or month after or year after it happened. If it is, you should move on in life. If it's not it is a sign you are healing, and in time the hurt will be so little it will not hinder your love for her.
I suggest you be patient. Maybe even see someone to talk about this too. Perhaps some outside professional help can help along the healing process. You seem to love her, and she you. You made it through perhaps the biggest trial of your relationship. After this everything is small in comparison. Good luck, take care
2006-09-12 03:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you would still have thoughts about it. She has demonstrated in the past that she is not committed to the relationship and there is no way she could be trusted in the future. A cheating partner leaves a scar on the soul that never goes away. Unless you have been cheated on, you really can never understand that. The best thing to do is part ways.
2006-09-12 03:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by Hockey, Guns & Beer 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Trust is a hard thing to build and an easy thing to loose. You will life with it for the rest of your relationship and if it is ended you will still have that in the back of your mind with a new person. better to stick with the one you are a smidgen doubtful of then get an unknown entity.
2006-09-12 04:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In some ways, yes I'd still remember but it depends on the circumstances. If they were caught as compared to a confession I'd be a bit more concerned.
2006-09-12 03:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is natural to have those unstrustworthy feelings. U should be careful because it could be happening again. Just keep look out on the signs and make sure u dont fall for that again.
2006-09-12 03:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by good4u06@verizon.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would get over it. Some people aren't good at monogamy. Some people make mistakes. **** happens. If it has been two years and you're still not over it, then I would consider counseling. You deserve mental stability and your girlfriend deserves someone who trusts her and doesn't obsess.
2006-09-12 09:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your examine is regrettably incorrect. various medical doctors in numerous diverse states have recommended many lady alongside with myself that they do if reality be told effect your beginning administration (some antibiotics or maybe antacids say it on the kit/bottle and of their area outcomes of this actuality) and with particular ones they make beginning administration not paintings in any respect no rely how long or wisely you have used beginning administration and medical doctors strongly recommend making use of a backup technique like condoms to stay away from being pregnant. additionally a huge kind of pregnancies alongside with mine that tutor that antibiotics effect beginning administration and make it much less efficient or not paintings in any respect while on or merely battling antibiotics. *Edit to unique poster* He offered you intend b so he does care approximately you and the possibility of buying you pregnant. He additionally apologized and became prepared to get examined (nevertheless he ought to have performed that first formerly having intercourse not extremely sensible on his section yet that doesn't recommend he does not care). He became very irresponsible particular yet that doesn't recommend he did not care and by ability of what he did afterwards shows that he if reality be told does care and desires to make issues paintings and concerns approximately himself and you. additionally you'll have been greater worried approximately your wellness and not had intercourse with out condom in case you knew formerly that he did not get examined, became undesirable on your section to confirm directly to have intercourse besides. in case you recognize he had dissimilar intercourse or intercourse companions formerly you and you have besides or suspect you have another kind of an infection do the in charge and healthful ingredient and wait to have intercourse till finally after he and you're the two examined giving in to rigidity or merely to delight somebody else became and is merely as irresponsible.
2016-10-14 22:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say that if i know without a doubt that they have been faithful for two years and the cheating thing was a once in a lifetime screw up then yes i would trust my mate
2006-09-12 03:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by fierce.tigress 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's possible , but people make mistakes and since her track record is good now, forgive her.
Having a desire to share pleasure with another person isn't the crime ,it's the lying about the desire that alienates the partner, or pretending it doesn't exist. When it exists in everyone.
2006-09-12 03:38:23 · answer #10 · answered by 2K 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋