After years of being a selfish ,inconsiderate poor excuse of a human being can someone change for real....
2006-09-12 03:26:27 · 19 answers · asked by solstice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it's been years i highly doubt it they would change.
2006-09-12 03:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by preciousmoments1962 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whew thats a hard one,over the years i`ve seen people change,i like to say they grew..but if someone has been selfish and inconsiderate, i think i`d ask myself is there reasons, fo rthis and watch liek a hawk for the old person to come into the picture,most selfish people only change for a bit,to impress someone or in there selfish ways,think there gaining your trust back,then slap there back to being nasty......goodluck
2006-09-12 10:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like your name :)
I think anything is possible, but always remember it's hard to teach an old dog new tricks - so if this person was very selfish and inconsiderate - the chances of that continuing are likely.
Best wishes!
2006-09-12 11:01:42 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes people do change look at me for instance, in my young and wild days I used women as a piece of meat had my fun then tossed them. Sorry ladies I apoligize, After meeting the right one my whole life changed, Now i give foot,butt and back messages. I show up with flowers every now and then and not for any reason just because. I cook , I clean, I talk all the nice things a woman wants. I learnt to give pleasure first and trust me that is a lot of fun to see a woman have muliple pleasures.... So yes people do change some for good and some for bad........NEVER TO LATE TO LEARN HOW TO TREAT A WOMAN
2006-09-12 10:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by Funny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess their change but the root of the character couldn't change I mean some mistake of human because its from being not from not learn or geting beside that the human during their grow up then change some .
2006-09-12 10:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by Abdumalik A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A life-altering even can frequently change a person, how deeply, though, will remain to be seen.
If you are talking about your spouse, what do you think? The person may indeed suffer from Narcissistic Personality Disorder. In that case, get rid of the albatross.
2006-09-12 10:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if they see their own faults then yes. It's like an alcoholic and drug user... they won't change unless they realize they have a problem and are willing to change. In all instances though, they need the support of others to help them through this.
2006-09-12 10:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely!!!!!!!!! I am proof of that. I used to be selfish, inconsiderate, hateful, depressed, overweight, and many more. Now I am confident, excited, positive, motivated, determined and phsically fit. Hope this answers your question.
2006-09-12 10:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly have no idea. I hope so, but I'm skeptical. I've never seen someone change enough that it would make someone who thinks that of them change their mind.
2006-09-12 10:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by KeM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is always that chance of changing. If someone wants it really bad then they can do it.
2006-09-12 10:28:45 · answer #10 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋