he left me 3 times to go back to his ex( she said was carrying on behind my back) and i cant go out with him and his mates cause i am a secret! cause if she found out she would flip and stop him seeing the kids
2006-09-12 03:24:00 · 15 answers · asked by purdy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It looks like he's using you, having the best of all worlds. If he seriously loved you and thought you were the only person for him, then he would find a way to bring your relationship out into the open and end it once and for all with his ex. Sorry :(
2006-09-12 03:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by Mary C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answered you question the first time round, you shouldnt trust this guy, you have good reason not too, my guess is obvious, he is still seeing his ex, and thats why you are a secret, I bet he goes out alot doesnt he? yeh well he's going to see the girlfriend everyone knows about, hes slimy man get rid of him quickly you shouldnt have taken him back, and beware of this woman with his kids, because if you do get found out you will get the blame for their relationship problems, come on hun there are kids involved in this, do what you know is right and get rid fast. Good Luck again, you need it more than before.
2006-09-12 10:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Left you 3 times? How many more time are u willing to put up with this? Dump him already.
2006-09-12 10:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes using you & his kids to have it all if he can't be with you and be open about it then walk away & find a man with no ties.
2006-09-12 10:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by sandra+3... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you belittling yourself so much, you deserve a guy who will handle you as his queen and show off with you not one that hides you
2006-09-12 10:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by Ravishing Rue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still wanting to see him? He's is just getting as much as he can from anyone who will have him. You really want to share him?
2006-09-12 10:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by Geoff M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all she cant prevent him from seeing the kids if he believes that he will continue to get screwed over
and if he is hiding you i think to me he is ashamed to be with you
find someone better
2006-09-12 10:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by tiggermouse73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, here is what you do;
Yell "NEXT"
This guy is playing you for a fool.
Dump him, fast, and find someone else.
Life is too short for mind games.
2006-09-12 10:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so WHY are you wasting your time with him??
Ditch him and get yourself a man worth having - that wont be keeping you a secret - but shouting his adoration for you from the rooftops!!!
2006-09-12 10:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him and start again find a new man and be honest with him
2006-09-12 10:30:39 · answer #10 · answered by stephen d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋