One of my friends has had three dates with this guy she met through a friend. She really likes him alot but does not know how to tell him. This guy has told my friend that he fancies her but he actually fancies her sister more. I need some advice on this.
2006-09-12 03:22:30 · 14 answers · asked by trollfido 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
always the way eh!!
2006-09-12 03:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me, i would want someone for my friend who is really into her and this guy isn't really. I would tell your friend what you know, then at least the ball is in her court. If she still wants to tell him her feelings then fair play but at least she already knows the score and you can be sure that you have acted as a true friend and been honest.
2006-09-12 03:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dancing Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has been on 3 dates with this chap, doesn't he know the she likes him. I think she should grow a pair and just tell him outright, but then scram if he doesn't reciprocate. He may just using your friend to get closer to the sister.
2006-09-12 03:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by Shyguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player and wants both of them. Don't get involved. I've seen this develop too many times. He'll end up falling flat on his ***. Gotta love the corrupt.
2006-09-12 03:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by Crossroads Keeper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is it YOU who is seeking advice when it's your friend who needs it? Why can't she tell him she likes him? The guy is hedging his bets at the moment. While he's not getting any warm feelings from your friend he will still be playing the field.
2006-09-12 03:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by Geoff M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that guy sound like a player, i wouldn't like my friend to fall into such a thing. maybe the guy wanna cause some problem in that family. since you know every thing, u better talk to them both. discuss the matter with them.
2006-09-12 03:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by sabrina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that whether she likes this bloke or not, she shouldnt go out with him since he's only be thinking of her sister and your friend deserves someone who just likes her.
Think of it this way; Your mum's sister's husband (your uncle) only marrying your auntie cus he wants to get it on with your mum.
Disrespectful or what?
2006-09-12 03:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by Wicked Top. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is pretending to like your friend and just using her to get to the sister!!
2006-09-12 03:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by Wibble 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell the girl ,and sounds likeshe can do better than him anyways because if he likesher but likes the sis better than she should move on.
2006-09-12 03:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by deborah h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he is playing mind game.
2006-09-12 18:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by anthrax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋